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Lets Meet For Drinks...  

rm_Joanna95060 48F
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7/10/2012 10:34 pm
Lets Meet For Drinks...

It's an easy and casual way to meet someone for the first time, where you can relax, besides, how painful can an hour be?*

What have I had to drink:
* Coke Zero (twice)
* Iced Tea (I'm STILL surprised that they didn't have lemonade)
* Orange and Mango smoothie (with very strong banana taste at Starbucks)
* Raspberry Lemonade
* Ginger Ale and ONE Beer- I'm not really a beer fan based on the principle of one beer in = Atlantic Ocean out, but they had a "Beer Bible", so I had to. And did.

Does where you go tell something about a person? How important is what you get? What kind of planner is the person? Who pays and why?

Even the simplest decisions start to carry a huge amount of weight when over analyzed.

Maybe we should say no to drinks...it's not a bad idea. Sometimes two people being in the same place at the same time is enough.

Of course, cotton candy or a bbq turkey drumstick are completely different scenarios.

*At the dentist's the answer is very, but that's a different topic.

OttawaMan43sum 53M
2220 posts
7/11/2012 6:15 am

 When I offer suggestions for a meeting, I try to make it convenient as possible location-wise. For instance, if it were a lunch meet and the lady were to order a scotch neat, I might internally remark that she may have a drinking problem. On the other hand, if it's a soft drink, the most I observe is whether the person has the same tastes as I do, and whether they get the "diet" version. However, it doesn't affect my view of that person in any measurable way.

I don't mind paying for the first meet, and I don't lord it over that person either. I simply consider it a nice, friendly gesture which is how I hope the other person views it.

How do you interpret it when a gentleman offers to pay for a non-alcholoic beverage?


rm_sweet4kiss 52M

7/12/2012 3:57 am

 why even bother with all questions "who drinks what"....leave that date for later when both of you feel more comfy.....
first meet do somewhere public but private, like park were both of you feel good and if for some reason u dont like each other its way easier to walk away than from the bar


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