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Too Close to Home  

Curvy_for_You 34F
81 posts
7/10/2014 4:39 pm
Too Close to Home


Because of my job I get the summers off. This is great but it means I'm bored during the day while all my friends are at work. Last summer I started up physical relationships with three of the repairmen at my apartment complex.

It wasn't an organized plan to create my own harem. It just kind of happened. They were available and good looking enough. I viewed it as a way to enjoy some of my extra time but never kidded myself that any of these relationships were meant to go anywhere or even continue past the summer.

Once the fall started I didn't even think about it until this summer. In the last month or so, I've resumed my relationships with two of the guys from the previous summer. But out of the blue one of these guys told me some of the other repairman felt insulted that I wasn't sleeping with them too and it was causing a lot of tension among them!

I didn't know what to make of this. I have two relationships that I'm open about but I don't consider myself the public property of the apartment repairmen. Where does this attitude come from?

I recently ended these relationships because I don't want the drama and definitely don't want my roommate to get dragged into this. Everything is cool now as far as I can tell but I'm just very disappointed in the whole situation.

I've had rules about not sleeping with men I work with or who live in my apartment complex and just didn't realize you shouldn't sleep with men who work in your community as well.

Has anyone else had a similiar situation?

gotgirthwantsome 51M
50 posts
7/10/2014 4:51 pm

would love to have been one of those repairmen


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
7/10/2014 5:19 pm

"I didn't know what to make of this... Where does this attitude come from?"
It happened because the guys you were permissive with made you sound like nothing more than a fuck-toy. Like minded and probably reminded on a daily basis, sure the other maintenance guys are going to "joke around" and say things like this.

More important than rules not followed, what does this tell you about your choices of playmates? Obviously, none of them have any concern about how you (and they) look in the eyes of others, nor do those playmates have any consciousness about their own indiscretions (personal and at their place of employment) or ability to be confidential about their sexual conquest. Only you can draw the right conclusion but all of this could have been brought on by your own indiscretions.

Unfortunately, you've already dragged your roommate into it and chances are even the leasing agents know about the girl in your unit.

Newton's Third Law of Motion:
For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

Yoda's First Law of Stupidity
For every action there is an equal opposing action and potential for undesirable repercussions.


lkuwet 78M
288 posts
7/10/2014 5:44 pm

Not had a similar situation but I think you acted decisively and damn the consequences. I admire what you did by ending the relationships with the repairmen.


Curvy_for_You 34F
23 posts
7/14/2014 9:17 pm

Overall my situation is ok now but it demonstrates how much drama is generated by a few sexual relationships that initially didn't seem like a big deal.


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