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my thoughts about this site  

rm_travelguyoh 63M
7255 posts
9/8/2013 4:34 pm

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9/13/2013 4:05 pm

my thoughts about this site


This subject has been talked about damn near as much as sex and I guess I can put my two cents in as well… This site and it’s many affiliates “is what it is” first and foremost, it’s a business and a damn big one at that, and there’s no secret that since Penthouse took over the show, things are not what they used to be, nor will they ever go back to way they used to be, but in all honesty “they’re the best game in town and sadly enough they know it”… My message for what it’s worth “you get out of this place what you put in it”… I’ve been on this site for several years now and I’ve learned a few things along the way and seen many changes “some were good and some were bad”… Life Sucks Sometimes “but if you hold their head just right, you can make it work for ya”!!! These are a few of the things that I’ve learned, most I thought were common sense, but since this is my blog and my post “I get to say what I want…

(1)Buyer Beware –This is an “Anonymous Sex Site” never trust that anything or anyone is what it seems to be…
(2)This Site Has Many Different Affiliates –When your profile is on one, it’s on many others as well, take the time to Google your profile name, you might be surprised what you find…
(3)Flirts and Hotlist – It used to be a way of saying “hey I’m interested” not so much anymore…
(4)Fake Profiles –It’s not that they’re fake, it’s a way to promote the site, if you’re a fifty year old guy and a 20 something is sending you flirts chances are it’s the site and not the person, refer back to rule one…
(5)Treat People The Way You Want to Be Treated –I’ve learned over the years you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar…
(6)Can You Get Laid On This Site – That would be a “Oh Hell Yes” but it takes more than a onetime email that says I’m horny and in town for a few days…refer back to rule 5…
(7)My best advice is get involved, whether it be in Chat, Blogs or Webcams, take the time to visit profiles, blogs and the many rooms that you find interesting and don’t forget the meet and greets the perfect chance to put faces with names and get to know people, we all have wants and desires and more than anything, we all want to treated as people and not as things…
(Will I re-new my golden ball, damn right I will…I like to check out the people that are checking me out…Life In VisionPersonals.com Land Is Bizarre At Best, but hey “we’re all a little fucked up one way or another”…

This Is My Story and I’m Sticking To It…Peace & Love My Friends


some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/12/2013 5:34 am

    Quoting  :

thank you and you can pimp me out all you want

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 7:00 pm

    Quoting  :

thank you your awesome

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 5:29 pm

    Quoting  :

thank you...i wasn't expecting this kind of a response, but i'm happy that a lot of people can relate to it...thank for coming by for a visit and getting involved in the conversation

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 2:25 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    There you go well said! I agree with you there. You only get out of the site is what you want to put into it.

    In my travels I have meet some awesome folks and still keep in contact with them. As for fakes there are lots! Keep reporting them to the abuse team and let them deal with them. They will sooner or later disappear off the site. You always have to be safe when meeting as you just don't know if the person is true or not. Your name is goggle all over the place once you joining including all your pics. Enjoy and have fun! hugs V
if more people used some common sense, life would be so much easier...I too have made some really great friends from this site and sine coming over to the blog side a few years ago, I have become a much richer person for it

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/9/2013 12:16 pm

There you go well said! I agree with you there. You only get out of the site is what you want to put into it.

In my travels I have meet some awesome folks and still keep in contact with them. As for fakes there are lots! Keep reporting them to the abuse team and let them deal with them. They will sooner or later disappear off the site. You always have to be safe when meeting as you just don't know if the person is true or not. Your name is goggle all over the place once you joining including all your pics. Enjoy and have fun! hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 11:40 am

    Quoting CampoGirl:
    I love the way you think/write! I believe you get out of this place, what you put into it. I haven't tried the affiliate sites...okay I did ALT. but WOW I couldn't get off there fast enough!
thank you...i agree, you get back from here what you put into it...Sometimes the site get a little wacky (well a lot)but the people here are great and possibilities are endless...thank for stopping in, it always nice to see you

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


CampoGirl 58F
43434 posts
9/9/2013 10:22 am

I love the way you think/write! I believe you get out of this place, what you put into it. I haven't tried the affiliate sites...okay I did ALT. but WOW I couldn't get off there fast enough!

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 8:28 am

    Quoting MissCinders:
    The problem is that men dont read profiles because they refuse to pay. They have no idea whom to contact or not contact. Then when they do make contact they get upset that if they do not fit the woman's criteria.
I totally agree with what you're saying, but this an Anonymous Sex Site and it comes with it own set of headaches, for me, either i use the delete button, or the block function if necessary, it's a shame as someone as already stated, that a few bad apples make it hard on the good folks in here...but if you weed through the idiots there are some great people on here, speaking for myself I have friends from all over the world and I'm a much richer person for it...thanks for stopping in for a visit and getting involved in the conversation...I hope to see around

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
9/9/2013 7:42 am

The problem is that men dont read profiles because they refuse to pay. They have no idea whom to contact or not contact. Then when they do make contact they get upset that if they do not fit the woman's criteria.


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 6:26 am

    Quoting  :

that's awesome to hear...I've been on here for several years and met a lot of great people...best of luck to you and thanks for stopping in for a visit

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 5:15 am

    Quoting madtrucker:
    I like the webcams mostly, I have a hard time with the IM and different list here. IM doesn't work most of the time. Its funny when you get close to the end of your membership you get all these views flirts and hotlistings at 10 times the rate, which is a bunch of BS. Plus to many fake profiles on here
the webcams are all good...have you tried just going to a chat room rather than trying the IMs alone, depending on your location and bandwidth -IMs can be tricky...The flirts and hotlist have become a joke of sort, but you can make them work for you with a little effort...I hope things get better for you and good hunting

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


madtrucker 67M

9/9/2013 5:01 am

I like the webcams mostly, I have a hard time with the IM and different list here. IM doesn't work most of the time. Its funny when you get close to the end of your membership you get all these views flirts and hotlistings at 10 times the rate, which is a bunch of BS. Plus to many fake profiles on here


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 4:18 am

    Quoting  :

that's a good point to ponder...we're entitled to our opinion but at the same time we should want to be a little respectful, I have people tell me all the time, what other people think of me is none of my business...This is a place that we can talk about anything we want, and more than not, we can do it without fear of repercussions...So my thought "is talk on girl"... it was nice to see for a visit and I hope to see you around

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 4:09 am

    Quoting demonicsexkitten:
    Putting my user name in by itself I got tons of "demonic kitten" videos... pesky cute little evil critters they are I had to put it in quotes. I didn't realize how many affiliated sites are out there, though I guess it really doesn't matter so much.

    I agree with what you said too. And ... well, honestly, I'm constantly baffled at how I'm here on a sex site and 98% of the men that message me are respectful and read my profile and are willing to stick with platonic as that's all I'm up for at the moment. And of the remaining 2%: most are still respectful despite looking for something totally different. I'm on traditional dating sites where I'm messaged by guys only wanting sex... much more blatantly than I get on here.
Oh My, I bet that was a interesting google search...I agree with you as well, it's a shame that the actions of a few reflect so badly on the rest of us and for the most part I've not had a lot of issues on this site...anyway it was nice to see you for a visit and getting involved in the conversation...i hope to see you around

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 4:00 am

    Quoting hotsandy5:
    You said it all. Thanks for sharing.
you are most welcome...thank you for stopping in, it's always nice to see you

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 3:58 am

    Quoting Discretewizard:
    What you say is true.
    And we can make it better.
thank you, it's nice nice to see you for a visit

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 3:54 am

    Quoting  :

thank you...it's nice to see new faces stop in for a visit to say hello and get involved in the conversation

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/9/2013 3:43 am

    Quoting  :

thank you...it's nice to see you stop in for a visit and get involved in the conversation

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


hotsandy5 49F
10514 posts
9/8/2013 9:04 pm

You said it all. Thanks for sharing.

A única alegria isenta de amargura é a de bem proceder.


demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
9/8/2013 8:42 pm

Putting my user name in by itself I got tons of "demonic kitten" videos... pesky cute little evil critters they are I had to put it in quotes. I didn't realize how many affiliated sites are out there, though I guess it really doesn't matter so much.

I agree with what you said too. And ... well, honestly, I'm constantly baffled at how I'm here on a sex site and 98% of the men that message me are respectful and read my profile and are willing to stick with platonic as that's all I'm up for at the moment. And of the remaining 2%: most are still respectful despite looking for something totally different. I'm on traditional dating sites where I'm messaged by guys only wanting sex... much more blatantly than I get on here.


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/8/2013 8:13 pm

    Quoting EnchantedViolet:
    Nice post. I agree with most of what you said, though I am still apt to get hot under the collar thinking about that FAS business. I suspect that the site continues to covertly market members in ways that some of us would find less than appealing, but, at the end of the day, it is our choice to be here. With that being said, I do have to put in the time and effort to make the site work for me. And it does.
i can fully agree with you on that one...i remember there was a day that i had like 15 guys looking at my blog, and i found out that i was featured on their gay male site...i was mad, embarrassed and flattered all at the same time

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


EnchantedViolet 59F
2795 posts
9/8/2013 8:06 pm

Nice post. I agree with most of what you said, though I am still apt to get hot under the collar thinking about that FAS business. I suspect that the site continues to covertly market members in ways that some of us would find less than appealing, but, at the end of the day, it is our choice to be here. With that being said, I do have to put in the time and effort to make the site work for me. And it does.

EnchantedViolet... the Garden is in bloom again
Thou Shalt Not Fuck Thy Neighbor


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/8/2013 7:50 pm

    Quoting  :

it's my story and i'm sticking to it...thank you

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/8/2013 7:49 pm

    Quoting  :

it is what is...i think we should all get nekkid and fuck for peace

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
9/8/2013 7:47 pm

    Quoting christylovesfun:
    so, what's the latest VisionPersonals.com scandal? Yours is about the 6th blog I've seen about the site, so I assume that means that there was another Fuckaslut scandal or something similar?
I try to run from all the scandals, i get in enough trouble on my own...I was just talking about how i feel, could it be better "yes" but at the end of the day, this place is what you make of it

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


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