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Do I let you in?  

TawdryAudrey 66F
174 posts
10/25/2012 12:27 pm
Do I let you in?

Somebody I just started conversing with on a different site than this one (I would call that site vanilla) asked if I had big plans for this weekend. I realized that he might be a bit more conservative than I, in lots of ways. Maybe sexually,maybe spiritually or politically or something. So I answered with the following:
“ It is a ritual weekend Samhain (Halloween) out at this spiritual camp I am involved with. Big pot luck dinner and treats with the , costume party. The theme is "Day of the Dead" and my roommate and I have created some creative pieces to decorate the cabin we sponsor. Like I said I am an eclectic person....lol. I am not some air head new ager; I am an open minded person who believes in the universe and spirit. I am a classy hippy…lol. This might be too much information; I just want you to know who I am.”
This got me thinking about this online dating and meeting people and the question of “who do I let in”. Now VisionPersonals.com is all over the place to start. Has everybody from A-Z. I feel that it already affords me more leeway than the vanilla site. I blog here, so I guess I am more real on here. Does the person I go out with or date have to believe in what I do? No they don’t, but there are things I feel pretty strongly about that would be a deal breaker right off for me. Do I tell them in a past life I was into some out of the box things? That I am not a "milk toast" kinda girl. You know some people when you share things just asume things about you...should I even care. I can shut them down pretty fast. I think I am a classy wonderful person. I want to be treated with respect no matter what.

I am just tripping and thinking about things…..



wildnwanton 61F
19428 posts
10/25/2012 12:31 pm

Your pic didn't post. And I will say again what I have always told you, people who come into your life, and start wanting you to change the elemental aspects of who you are, people who cannot accept your past and your present, are not going to bring any joy into your life. I love you, you classy assed dame. Stop over-thinking!

"Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson


TawdryAudrey replies on 10/25/2012 3:11 pm:
I love you girl! Thank you! I was just thinking.....

Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
10/25/2012 2:19 pm

You tell them who you are and let the chips fall from there.


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TawdryAudrey replies on 10/25/2012 3:12 pm:
Yes, that is what I do......Thanks!

CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
10/26/2012 7:23 am

There are tons of other “dating” sites of course, but this one surely has the largest range of tastes. I especially enjoy the wide range, and the freedom to express, and the acceptance, that comes from that.

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TawdryAudrey replies on 10/26/2012 12:34 pm:
I agree...

rm_shanei_409 69M

10/26/2012 8:54 am

Welcome to the land of "one persons Vanilla is another persons "spice""

I try not to pull any punches on online encounters so that when one DOES actually make it to a face to face.....I'm one in the same.

Plus.....anyone in this world must (??)know that in the cyber world....MANY things are not to be taken at face value and to TRY to expect the unexpected R....do some homework!

Reality.....what a Concept!!


TawdryAudrey replies on 10/26/2012 12:35 pm:
Wise man. I know all this, times I just ponder harder.
Pictures soon!

TawdryAudrey 66F
181 posts
10/26/2012 12:37 pm

Oh....and the person NEVER answered me back! HA!....Thanks for all the coments!

Ok...out of here off to camp!


timeless5252 71M

10/29/2012 2:03 pm

Hello..again...hope you had a great weekend...
I love this time of year...the crispness in the air, the bonfires of Samhain...and the mystery that surrounds the thinning of the veil...
I love your description of yourself...classy hippie...me, I'm just an old hippie...
Take good care.


TawdryAudrey replies on 10/29/2012 2:42 pm:
The thinning of the veil.....always gets me witht he imagery especially.
Hippies are good folk in my definition!

LVgent59 65M  
12 posts
10/30/2012 12:32 am

"You're absolutely perfect.. now lets see what we can change about you".. why in the name of great Ghu would you want to do that?? You share who you are. .and they either accept that or they don't.. in the long run it's probably far easier than investing time, energy and emotion in "that" sort of person.


TawdryAudrey replies on 10/30/2012 7:35 am:
Yes, I share who I am! Thank you.
Looking forward to seeing you soon!

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