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1of2dorks 53M
Ask me for a photo
82 posts
1/16/2015 11:34 pm

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12/25/2015 11:31 pm
Invisible bloggers

We are out there.
I note the preference setting on this site is to automatically watch for folks with photos.
Those without you have to ask to have included in a search, if you look.
This means a lot of good potential out there gets passed over without folks realizing it.
Not speaking for myself on this, just making note not everyone reads all the pages they flip through. Especially if there are hormones driving the desire to flip from page to page. A lot can get missed.
While I am partially visible (this takes a lot longer than a picture of say a good looking person with a stunning body, and a gold membership, but hey, I am not here for recognition. I have other motives , I think there might be many out there who get discouraged by the need to have a photo up.
Not to say it doesn't have advantages, but those are not for everyone. Or should I say not everyone seeks notoriety of that sort?
So thinking on it for a moment, if you didn't have pictures to share with your blog, Would the content still draw a crowd? This is not to say pictures are what draws people to a blog. Goodness knows I visit blogs that have photos, and yes, I enjoy them. In fact some are exceptional photos. But I am not speaking of photos here, just blogs and being invisible. Usually it is the person running the blog, creating posts that draws me. but I am not everyone, so must ask. . ..
To you, what makes a blog rise up from the murk of obscurity?

veryjuicykitten 29F
105 posts
1/16/2015 11:57 pm

 I think its one thing to not put a pic up if you don't want to attract much attention, but if you are male, to stand out on this site you likely need to make an effort to stand out from the zillions of other 'Mr Silhouette' on this site, so I guess as long as you attach a face pic when messaging, then you don't need to worry too much about a profile pic for everyone to see


1of2dorks replies on 1/18/2015 11:41 pm:
Well said as I am not here to pick up or be picked up, it is a mute point to me. But your points are valid. for a guy to stand out in a school of other fish, he has to not look like the rest

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