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Blogs > 1of2dorks > My secret monster

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1of2dorks 53M
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11/22/2014 12:58 am

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11/29/2014 12:38 am
Not sure how to title this. ..

Earlier today I got a call from some one I had been thinking about earlier in the day. Being as she is a woman and I a man, your imagination can easily take you down the same path I was on.
To complicate things a bit further, I know from time to time she has other interests than men.
Add a bit to that, I am not the most colorful crayon in the box when it comes to men. Colorful yes, but not the most so to speak.
And then add to it further complication of maintaining a certain distance.
I get the feeling were I inclined I could instigate something here. Perhaps even after a length of time even develop intimacy. But again, I am Not sure such would be a good idea, therefore keep a distance.
Some guys I know would have been walking that path a while ago. Even more interesting, I am sure I know a few ladies who have.
And still, I find hesitation in myself.
Past experience with this halts me where I am, as does current fidelity.
The thought of such things entertains, but the reality. ...
Well, perhaps it is best to let such things remain an unrealized thought, and action, rather than risk what I am protecting.
But this too is something I suspect might be involved as there are other interests than myself. Being who I am, I try not to let such things escape my perceptions. If such were to occur, I also do not have issue with it. That is to say there may well be an interest in the one I am being faithful to. Yes, there is a slight bit of warped logic here, so bare with it for a moment longer.
Before getting seriously involved, one of the things agreed upon was if there ever was infidelity, it would be with some one of the same sex. That applied equally to both of us. I am still not inclined to do so, but I would not stop her from such, if she decided she were.
Where it gets complicated again, is that I suspect there might not be interest in one or the other, but both.
But then again, I could be reading too far into this, and be completely off base with it. Either way, right or wrong, it is only a train of thought for pondering.

AnElectricPair 63M/60F
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11/22/2014 1:28 am

 Don't over think it. Women love men with confidence, not hesitation. The simplest approach is to be completely open. Tell her you are interested in getting to know her and ask if that interest is mutual.


1of2dorks replies on 11/22/2014 11:57 pm:
Actually, I have had more than one cue that there is interest. I have simply not followed through for the reason, I am faithful to my wife. If I were not otherwise taken, I would pursue this. In the mean time, I am thinking there is a friendship developing between us. Friendship in my experience goes a lot further than other relationships. Last, timid is one thing I am not Troublesome yes, but not timid =-))

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