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Helpful hints for the ladies  

realsweetness 49F
1449 posts
9/17/2014 4:18 pm
Helpful hints for the ladies


At a party last night, the discussion among a group of ladies turned to who had stepped out, and was it worth it. Afterwards, I was told my several ladies that I should write a book 😳. So as a service, here's a sampler:

1) Be honest-don't pretend to be what you are not. Don't try to be 29, and a jogger when you're 39 and 45 pounds overweight. The point is to empower who you are, and to find someone who finds it fucking sexy.

2) Decide what you are apprehensive about, and distinguish it from what you are terrified of. Not sure about wax or public sex? Group sex or pain a no-no, figure it out beforehand.

3) Take lots of pictures

4) Talk to people. Here the gentleman:asshole ratio is about 1:60, so don't let it get you down. Browse the blogs and groups.

5) Be picky. At first, I probably went through 300 emails before I found a couple of guys worth my IM. Then one got my cell, and if it clicked a coffee date.

6) Don't freak out if you act differently after stepping out. I found myself more assertive, looking at men differently. Instead of "He's kinda hot" it's now "I wonder if I can blow him on the first date"

7) Have absolute rules like meets in public places and an emergency contact. Also be upfront about rules like condoms. I once was bound, and felt him go in bareback and nearly had a heart attack..,



CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
9/17/2014 8:01 pm

Good tips, from a lady that surely knows!

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windsjohn 73M  
798 posts
9/18/2014 8:27 am

Gentleman to asshole ratio in here. Spot on. I don't know which category I am in.


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