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spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
6/13/2014 5:31 am
Turn about


So there is the super cool notion that I actually tend to believe in and I will float it on out there for you. The notion is the old "what is good for the goose is good for the gander". Now normally I would take the time right now to tell my just what the saying means but you are better than that right?

When it comes to funky naked time and nude co ed wrestling I use this phrase semi regularly. What I mean there is if I am expecting to get a blow job I better damn well be prepared to go down on her. If I want to get tied up then I damn well better have some ropes for her. Same goes for spanking and anal and whatever you have in mind.

The bottom line is you cant be a good partner if you are only willing to do a couple of things and expect a hundred back in return. (ex wifes I am looking at you). You also cant be a good partner if you are dismissive and don't try your best. If you lick pussy like it was a popsicle don't expect the world most amazing BJ.

Geese, ganders, popsicles, I have cover a lot of ground today. Hopefully it makes sense to you and you have a goose or a gander of your own.

demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
6/13/2014 5:59 am

Great post... and that's how I was raised and what I believe.

"Fair is fair" and while "good for the goose is good for the gander".

Maybe the turn about doesn't happen the same day or time, so long as it DOES happen.


SimplyinBC 47F  
502 posts
6/13/2014 6:31 am


itzchic824 37F
2811 posts
6/13/2014 7:33 am

I agree. I'll give oral for quite awhile but I've had guys who don't want to return the favor. Needless to say they no longer get anything from me. Also the anal thing, I tried it and didn't like it but guys still say oh well someday you will with "me". lmao I never thought to say well only if I can stick stuff in your ass too. I'll have to remember that.

I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
6/13/2014 10:58 am

Spider,
Interesting perspective. I wrote a blog on the opposite. Your post I thought was about turnabout is fair and that you should be willing to participate in her fantasies if you want yours fulfilled. And my post was about sometimes you can find someone's fantasy cool in the moment but not want to participate in it.

And what is wrong with being licked like a popsicle? That actually sounded gooooood. Or maybe being licked like a lollypop? Or maybe being sucked like a .... err, where was I? Ha!
Kitkat

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spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/13/2014 2:53 pm

    Quoting demonicsexkitten:
    Great post... and that's how I was raised and what I believe.

    "Fair is fair" and while "good for the goose is good for the gander".

    Maybe the turn about doesn't happen the same day or time, so long as it DOES happen.
yup. know full well that it is gonna happen and don't act surprised when it does.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/13/2014 2:54 pm

    Quoting  :

shit didn't even realize it camp crystal lake day. partners have to be open minded or you go nowhere.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/13/2014 2:55 pm

I cant be bothered to find a smiley face of bowing so instead a hearty thank you.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/13/2014 2:57 pm

    Quoting itzchic824:
    I agree. I'll give oral for quite awhile but I've had guys who don't want to return the favor. Needless to say they no longer get anything from me. Also the anal thing, I tried it and didn't like it but guys still say oh well someday you will with "me". lmao I never thought to say well only if I can stick stuff in your ass too. I'll have to remember that.
you both might be in for a surprise the next time anal is suggested. he might really like receiving.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/13/2014 3:00 pm

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    Spider,
    Interesting perspective. I wrote a blog on the opposite. Your post I thought was about turnabout is fair and that you should be willing to participate in her fantasies if you want yours fulfilled. And my post was about sometimes you can find someone's fantasy cool in the moment but not want to participate in it.

    And what is wrong with being licked like a popsicle? That actually sounded gooooood. Or maybe being licked like a lollypop? Or maybe being sucked like a .... err, where was I? Ha!
    Kitkat
the fun zone is not something to be held at arms length and licked. it is more like one of those pie eating contests when you jump in and just bury your face ear deep. as far as fantasies go I think as long as it doesn't cross one of your personal boundries you can be up for it. however if one of yours crosses one of his then we really are at that same place again.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/13/2014 3:01 pm

    Quoting  :

just makes sense to me. quit being so damn greedy and start sharing the wealth people.


SimplyinBC 47F  
502 posts
6/13/2014 8:04 pm

    Quoting spiderj72:
    I cant be bothered to find a smiley face of bowing so instead a hearty thank you.
(now I'm just being a smart ass lol )


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/14/2014 3:21 pm

    Quoting SimplyinBC:
    (now I'm just being a smart ass lol )
yes you are. you should be punished somehow.


SimplyinBC 47F  
502 posts
6/14/2014 9:54 pm

    Quoting spiderj72:
    yes you are. you should be punished somehow.
somehow? you're the creative one...figure it out


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
6/15/2014 2:58 pm

    Quoting SimplyinBC:
    somehow? you're the creative one...figure it out
cant think dazzled by red heels. tres sexy. give me some time to come up with a suitable punishment.


itzchic824 37F
2811 posts
7/24/2014 6:35 pm

I totally agree.

I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!


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