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Assholes Decided to not to co-opt someone elses blog and since we havent put one up in a while, thought we would take this topic and blog about it. Long subscribed to the point of view is that there is little point in arguing with an asshole, cuz, by my definition, a person being an asshole is so devoid of recognizing how socially or situationally inappropriate their behavior is, that even if you told them they are being an asshole, they would look at you blankly, because their own inner restraint is off kilter, well because they are being an asshole. (head lowered in shame) I have been an asshole...we all have our asshole moments...some of us have however perfected the art, some have no shame and are down right proud to be an asshole - such people are still pretty clueless how much of an asshole they are being, as per my definition, cuz they are an asshole. Being an asshole, when I use the term, is gender less, so yes women can be as much an asshole as men. I dont like to call any woman a bitch, not a PC person, but its sexist, derogatory and typically when men use it they do so to hurt women emotionally...my ex knows this (hanging my head in lower shame..well sorta, cuz she really pisses me off sometimes)...I digress, suffice to say, yes ladies you too are capable of acting like and being an asshole. Now, as mentioned at the beginning, an asshole doesnt know they are being an asshole. The difference between being an asshole and acting like an asshole, is that when pointed out to them, assholes continue acting like assholes, un-apologetically so. GODSAVEJFK is an asshole, we are acting like an asshole for calling another member an asshole, see how that works...  So why blog about assholism? Well seems assaholism is a growing condition where folks can hide behind handles online...not just here but anywhere else folks are able to chip in their opinion anonymously. Its getting so bad, that some organizations are removing the comment sections from online publications or requiring self-identifying sign on that links social profiles. We recently commented on a womans blog that her comments were mean and unfair, she linked others profiles and called the women diseased whores, all because they had the tenacity to send her an email...and she took such great offence that they didnt read her profile....OMG...imagine the horrors of horrors, that folks dont read a profile....this person is well versed with her block feature, that could have sufficed, but because she is empowered with the anonymity of this site, she resorted to some pretty mean stuff...actually, alot of what she says is mean and her defense is its her blog and she can say what she wants....clue it in, she is an asshole. (note, see we didnt put her profile name hear, cuz, well then we would be assholes for fighting with assholes. Maybe its just us, maybe its cuz we really want to meet folks here, so why would we conduct ourselves in anyway online that we wouldnt conduct ourselves off of it? Yeah, we get snippy sometimes with the "hey ya wanna fuck" emails, straight guys telling us they are bi-curious, fakes, the flakes, etc etc...but really why act like an asshole? It never seems to occur to some folks that if just maybe the ideal person(s) you are looking for see you acting like an asshole and they just pass you by. Now we love a nice tight asshole, we just dont like it attached to an asshole. |
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Brilliant stated! There is one blogger in particular who make the hair on the back of my neck stand up, and I'm always tempted to call her to the mat when I see her comments. But if I did, then I would be the asshole. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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So true, and very well stated! Most of us come here to find others who enjoy what we enjoy. steamy, hot, erotic sex with a bit of kink mixed in. Sadly, some come here to create drama....they thrive on it, because their lives are empty and they're bitter. When I encounter people like this, I thank them for responding, wish them luck in their search then I just ignore them and move on. 99.9% of the time, they are stunned by my response and I never hear from them again, a few apologize, and a few respond with more trash talk....but I don't respond. I will never lower myself to their level!
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Informative, well-thought out and stated post. I particularly like the last comment "It never seems to occur to some folks that if just maybe the ideal person(s) you are looking for see you acting like an asshole and they just pass you by". I couldn't agree more. Some people live two lives, the online and offline. While I understand some are being discreet/secretive, your true self/morals/beliefs will start to show. Me, I'm a simple person. I enjoy life without complications and less asshats. 
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Well Said... Thanks for posting this. One of my favorite nuggets is: "Never argue with a moron (i.e. asshole), people who are watching may not be able to tell the difference." If y'all have not heard it, check out: "Assholes On Parade" by Timbuk 3 ... fun tune. It often surfaces in my mind when I witness an asshole polishing their skills. I am with the folks who are completely befuddled by chronic asshole behavior. To me it seems pretty simple: "You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar." As for the "Drama"... I saw a T-shirt once that read: "Save the Drama for your Mama." It was for an athletic group, with the message no doubt being directed at the whiners and complainers at practice (or events), but it does have a sort of universal appeal to me. I agree... we all can have our asshole moments.... It is the ones who cannot or do not know how to "let it go" that really stand out. 
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