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A Goldilocks Complex  

gottaring 51F
10312 posts
4/15/2015 3:13 pm
A Goldilocks Complex
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4/25/2015 3:45 pm

 Boobies!

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smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
4/19/2015 8:42 am

 I like Prof10001's idea.

(not that being a famous stand-up comic would find you that perfect guy - but I surely do think you'd be really good at it)


gottaring replies on 4/20/2015 3:06 pm:
Ha! Thanks, Dollface! I don't see stand-up comedy in my future, but perhaps a stint as a boudoir photographer of lovely ladies? It was certainly fun the last time I played photog in Seattle, lol. Xo

lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
4/19/2015 12:04 am

 Can't really be a Goldilocks Complex, because she kept finding one that was "just right." It's more like Princess and the Pea maybe? I've got it too.


gottaring replies on 4/20/2015 3:07 pm:
Now that you've written that, I think you're absolutely right, lol. I'm the Princess and the Pea

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4/17/2015 11:42 am

 OMG im sooo happy to see you back.
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gottaring replies on 4/20/2015 3:08 pm:
How are you, Sexy Dave??! Good to see you !!

MikeDmasterplan 52M
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4/17/2015 7:16 am

 At the risk of sounding like I'm saying it is what it is (I hate it when people say that!), you like what you like, right? That grin doesn't appear to be coming from a dissatisfied woman, by the way.


gottaring replies on 4/20/2015 3:10 pm:
If my grin doesn't LOOK as though it's coming from an unsatsfied woman, it's only because I'm great at faking it . But I get what you're saying .

citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
4/16/2015 4:19 pm

 Sorry, what was the question again?
I see Goldilocks and the one bare.


gottaring replies on 4/20/2015 3:11 pm:
Nice play on words !!

gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
4/16/2015 12:15 pm

 I have the opinion that you get to pick what is right for you, and you shouldn't compromise that. of course that is easy to say from a guy who never had a chance to start with and knew it. But you also happen to be excellent at making it up to us!
Take it easy, guns are cold.


gottaring replies on 4/20/2015 3:13 pm:
Well, I'm glad you stuck around regardless of your (perceived) chances .

msb690916 54M
141 posts
4/15/2015 8:57 pm

 It's not you. It seems to me, seeing this from afar, that perhaps you're experiencing cognitive dissonance? My point is this: you have high standards and expectations, yet you haven't found that perfect blend of masculinity, sensitivity, flirtatiousness, sexiness, intelligence, thoughtfulness, and charisma.

You neither need to make apologies for nor compromise your standards, but they present the challenge. Despite the vastness of this VisionPersonals.com ocean, you're not finding what you want. You're going through school after school of metaphorical fish with their curious and unnecessary cock pics, unwarranted bravado, shallow and vulgar overtures, and Neanderthal intellect.

You're attractive, intelligent, and desirable. Isn't there a guy in this ocean who is your equivalent or at least understands you? After all, you're here. Why shouldn't "He" be here for you?

Unfortunately, those best traits you exhibit are chum for the masses that don't understand your subtleties, sensitivities, and needs. I can't blame the guys for trying: you're a worthy endeavor. I know it's no comfort having to look day after day, month after month, or year after year, but I encourage you to keep your standards high, for when you do find the right one it will be all the more sweet.
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OldDionsaur23 61M
893 posts
4/15/2015 7:25 pm

 Yay, boob pic!

Seriously, though, you have a right to be picky. If you aren't, well, won't that cause difficulties sooner or later? Might as well nip it in the bud, then.


ak_bigbadwolf3 51M
2630 posts
4/15/2015 5:40 pm

 ahhhh im to far away
Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!


daVinci58 65M
1364 posts
4/15/2015 5:29 pm

 Ahhh yes... That certainly makes up for everything! Although your boobies are lovely and stunning the thing that I'm always drawn to are your lips and smile! They simply radiate 'you'... Have a great weekend and love yourself a lot more! We certainly do!


Prof10001 63M  
4094 posts
4/15/2015 4:44 pm

 Turning it all into a stand-up routine and making a million might be an option.

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rm_Captain4779 39M
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4/15/2015 4:33 pm

 Sometimes ya just gotta roll with the punches


GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
4/15/2015 3:32 pm

 Yeah boobs!
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