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A Questionable Offense
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GOOD
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It's funny you say that, any time I have communicated with someone on here, I always feel like I am asking too many questions. I guess it varies by who you are talking to?
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From my perspective, I wouldn't dream of initiating that. Once it's out in the open, then dine to share. But given the nature of control-freak men who then use every bit of intimate knowledge as a form of torture and abuse in a relationship, I can understand why some men are reluctant to pry too deeply. To assume that showing a bit of respect equates with arrogance in your eyes is quite depressing
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Well said 
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The same people who have trouble communicating in real life have a problem communicating on here as well. Most men on this site have trouble meeting people in person and therefore resort to websites like this out of desperation despite having no understanding of women at all. They think that just because this is a website for adults who want sex that means they can treat/talk to women on here like theyre hookers. It is very very sad, yet good for those of us who enjoy actually talking with women too.
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7/3/2014 9:30 pm |
Insecurity, maybe? I find that I end up asking a ton of questions on chat and feel similar to you when I don't get any questions in return. I'm always curious about other people, especially my fellow VisionPersonals.com freaks. And I was taught by someone at some point that a highly effective way of picking up a woman is to get her talking about herself. Doesn't everyone know this?
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I find it hard to have a long conversation if both aren't asking questions and when both answer new questions automatically work their way into it and that keeps the conversation going. If only one person is asking questions a conversation tends to start dying off pretty quickly since there are only so many of the basic types of questions a person can ask. A good conversation needs both to be interactive in asking and fully answering questions, I can't stand asking questions and getting nothing but 1 or 2 word answers, very hard to keep it going when that happens. "A couple bucks will get you on the subway, but garlic will get you a seat."
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I absolutely think there is a correlation between the effort put into communicating and the effort they'll put into the deed. Good back and forth convo is a must for me. Probably why i never meet anyone...
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That's interesting , I often get told I ask too many questions - women have told me it feels more like an interview than a conversation with me . Must be a happy medium somewhere Putting clients first by putting employees first, immediately after prioritizing fiscal responsibilities and leveraging profitability towards exceeding by empowering our employees to put clients (and themselves) first, in a diverse and respectful environment of only those that come first, first.
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Why would you say you are being naive? An active interest in you that involves asking questions is a requirement you have for a potential partner, don't settle. Take it easy, guns are cold. 
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I think being part of being a good partner is asking questions. How am I gonna find out if you had similar experiences when we were young. Or as I have said before at some point the sex stops and the talking starts. Best to be prepared for that sort of thing.
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Trust your instincts and walk away. Good/great lovers are interested in learning more about you, even if it is just for one meet.
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It's not arrogant, it's just not what they are here for. Most folks don't go to EHarmony looking for a one night stand and most people don't come here to learn about a women they want to fuck beyond, "are you wearing any panties". The ones you are dealing with are smart and polite enough to know that they should answer your questions but they don't ask any because they don't really care. Does it bode well for how they will be in bed. Maybe, maybe not. I don't think their attitude necessarily a *bad* thing, Quick local hookups is what this site was built on. As much as we might "socially network" connecting for sex is still the heart that drive this site's engine. Also, as a gender, men don't care if a woman is married or not, has a hall pass or not, if she's cheating or anything else about her marital/relationship status. Thy don't care because they aren't looking for a relationship with you, they may not be looking beyond a fuck or two. Men are a lot less bothered by women who are cheating than women are with men who are cheating. I don't think you're being naive, I'm pretty sure you've made these same observations. I think you are frustrated because you are endlessly searching fr a needle in a haystack.
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It's simple we are retarded, but then I live in Alaska and everyone always has questions about it so makes it easier to be quiet most times Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!
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If they aren't looking for anything other than sex, then your personality is irrelevant to them. They just want to get you in bed as quickly as possible. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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I've tried getting closer, but you giggle and run away.
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