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rm_RI_Goddess 59F
374 posts
6/20/2008 1:57 pm

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So last week I go to the salon for a haircut and it was time to have my roots done and a new foiling done (for those of you who don't know what foiling is, it is having highlights put in your hair). I typically only foil during the summer months to give my hair a little contrast for the warmer weather.

Anyway, I really thought I didn't need the foil, simply the root coloring (ya can you imagine I actually have grays!!! hehehe) but my hairdresser insisted that once he cut my hair the existing highlights would almost be completely gone. Of course being the person I am, I trust what he has to say and go with the flow.

Well, we go through the almost 4 hour process (yep can you believe it takes that long...heck it takes almost 2 hours just for him to put the foils on my hair since I have such thick hair). So when it is all said and done and he is about to start blowdrying I notice that it looks rather light all over my head which only means that when it is blown dry it will be even that much lighter. Now I am getting a bit nervous because I am a dark brunette and definitely have no desires to be a blonde or a light haired person in general.

Blow drying complete and he shows me the finished product. I am clueless what to say...my hair looks almost a uniform color throughout (not what is supposed to happen when you do foils) and it is LIGHT....and not even a light blonde...it looked orangish!!!! I almost died!! He claims he went a bit lighter for the summer to match with my skin tone and that it was caramel....I'm sorry I've had caramel highlights many times and this WAS NOT caramel.

He swears up and down that it looks great and matches perfectly with my skin tone...I of course am not convinced but decide I will come home and get other people's opinions.

First words out of my 's mouth...."Mom did you really want your hair to be orangish?" This was definitely starting out poorly!!! My younger , always the nice one, said it looked okay but she preferred my darker hair. My husband, always politically correct, said that if I liked it it was fine....which meant..."Honey it sucks!!!" I called the salon and spoke to my hairdresser and of course he became all irate because I was insulting his work. I told him that I rarely complain and that this was the second time he had done me wrong with my hair (we won't even get into what happened the last time!!! )

He was unwilling to rectify the situation....now mind you he and I have been friends outside of the salon for years and years....so it was very difficult for me to have to complain but I just couldn't take it. Of course his attitude only made the situation worse. I finally couldn't take it any longer and decided to go out and get my hair colored again....it is back to more of what I like no thanks to him and I stopped payment on my check (I decided it was unfair for me to pay $200 for something I was very unhappy with and that they were unwilling to rectify).

Today the owner of the salon calls me to tell me he was quite disappointed in the fact that I stopped payment on the check and asked why I hadn't called my stylist if I was unhappy. I now find out that my hairdresser told the owner that he doesn't know why I stopped payment and that he hadn't heard from me...talk about trying to cover his ass. I explained the entire situation to the owner and what transpired when I called to complain and he completely agreed that I should not have to pay for something I am not happy with (I give his salon a ton of business so he doesn't want to lose me as a ). He not only said that I did not have to pay for the service but my next hair service is also on the salon....I am switching so that the individual who does my nails will now be doing my hair as well....I am sure it will put a damper on my friendship with my current hairdresser but in all actuality what type of friend is unwilling to rectify the situation and then to lie to his boss to cover his butt....

At least my hair is back to a color I like and I don't feel so awkward being seen out in public....and it seems this "hairy" situation is now behind me hehehehe

Have a great day everyone and enjoy the weekend!!

AM







peoriabigirl 47F

6/20/2008 4:04 pm

Like you, Im very dark, very thick, very curly hair. Its very hard for me to even come close to trusting a person to do my hair, so when I find a good one, I am very hesitant to complain. However, my hair is my calling card. EVERYONE remembers my hair. So its very important that it looks good at all times. What he should have done, and its a very quick fix for the "orange" is to just but a toner on it. Its like a ten minute process and recarmelalizes the hair. Dark hair does not go carmel color easily....we pull red! What is red and blonde mixed together?!?! Oragne! Lets all get out the color wheel.

Glad it got rectified for you!


rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/23/2008 7:24 am:
Hey girlfriend.....how goes it?? He did tone it because when he foils he bleaches rather than putting color and then tones....but he so goofed this time....colored my roots much lighter then toned almost that color and when it was all said and done it looked like one blob of orange....it was scary LMAO I don't know why he decided to take the liberty of doing my roots lighter...he knows I love my dark hair with just a few lighter highlights for the summer....who knows what on earth he was thinking this time....anyway it looks MUCH better now hehehehe

rm_Katt44dd 65F
1015 posts
6/21/2008 4:03 am

Awwwww poor you Annamarie that was not fair of him to put you through that. I do so hope that he can see it from your point of view as a customer and not let it effect your long friendship. Does that mean I can't call you a Fag Hag anymore I am glad you got it fixed Mmmwhhaaa


rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/23/2008 7:26 am:
LMAO....well considering he isn't really talking to me at the moment I think that name is out the window for a while LMAO I'm just happy it looks better now...phew....

SBCNMSLUVG 56M/50F
383 posts
6/21/2008 5:46 am

hey babe, go tony by the way . but as a customer, you were not happy with your service, and did what you should have done. the only thing i would have suggested is that next time, call the owner directly, fuck the douche bag that fucked up the hair. i could see if it was october and you wanted to go somewhere as a pumpkin but i do believe the main reason you were upset is that your hair reminded you of the #20 car. orange isnt so bad


rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/23/2008 7:27 am:
Okay....it's official...I have given up on Nascar!!!!!! I am SOOOOOOO sick of Kyle Busch winning....heck I'd rather see Tony win over him!!!! And you know just how much I DON'T like Tony LMAO BTW...have you ever seen orange hair???? It is scary....the #20 car aside LMAO

danaman4u 70M
5979 posts
6/21/2008 11:50 am

I think Deb is right. Your ex-friend's guilty conscious would keep him from being comfortable around you. He may have assumed you'd stay quiet, and was willing to trade your friendship for his job security and the respect of his boss and co-workers.

You did the right thing by foiling his plan. But next time you get your hair colored, clear up any doubt about the shade you want: Specify the color in RGB numbers.


rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/23/2008 7:29 am:
LMAO....can you imagine if they used RGBs for hair color...that would be too funny!!!! Needless to say he won't be touching my hair anywhere in the future so hopefully I won't have to deal with this again....it was sad to think though that he got so ticked off because I complained....he's had other clients complain about him as well and he took that better than my comnplaints...as you said I believe he thought I would keep my mouth shut this time and I didn't....

beachgirly99 47F
28 posts
6/22/2008 12:15 pm

OMG. I can't believe he did that. First he disrespected you by doing something to your hair that you didn't want... second, he didn't fix what you didn't like... third, he lied about it. Sounds like he has inhaled too much bleach solution...

I am glad you had the confidence to cancel the check...

Thank goodness the salon owner was sane...

I have had too many issues with hair dressers ruining my hair by doing what THEY wanted rather than what I wanted. One guy wanted to cut off all my hair, but I wanted to keep it long. He intentionally messed it up so that I would let him cut it. He did such a bad cut that I had to fix it and ended up cutting it myself for a couple years. He later get upset thinking I went to someone else, but wanted to hire me after he found out I did the work!

I got my own scissors, and buy my dye at the supply store and have been doing my own for years... Its how I like it - long and pretty and two tones blonde and brown underneath - and people always compliment me... yes - saving $200 every two months!!!

xoxo


rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/23/2008 7:33 am:
Hey beachgirly....I don't know what it is with hairdressers and always wanting to take liberties with OUR hair....I guess it must be the "artist" in them or something but I think we know what we like and how we like it....unfortunately I don't think I could cut my own hair but I know I could definitely color it....I only do a couple of foils a year anyway in the summer to shake it up a bit....in the winter I keep it pretty much its natural color (LMAO...well what used to be natural shall we say....grays in my book are NOT natural so have to get rid of those hehehehe)

SBCNMSLUVG 56M/50F
383 posts
6/24/2008 6:45 am

but baby, youre beautiful, no matter what the color of your hair


rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/24/2008 4:01 pm:
You know hun you are always so sweet to me I think that is why we got along so well the one time we did meet each other way back when LMAO....even though you're a Tony fan hehehehehe

rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/24/2008 4:02 pm:
BTW....do you and MsLuv ever go to any of the gatherings or M&G's anymore???

SBCNMSLUVG 56M/50F
383 posts
6/24/2008 6:54 pm

were hoping to more now that she has a better job and were in nh


rm_RI_Goddess replies on 6/25/2008 6:38 am:
Cool....I have to get my butt out and about again as well...would be great to give you shit about Nascar again in person LMAO You doing the NH races this year?

jeffandBonna 57M/66F
7328 posts
6/26/2008 8:28 am

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cranedrivertwo 72M

12/19/2008 7:26 am

that is not a friend ,a freind does not fuck over another friend!


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