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Blogs > thegrlsnme > Thoughts from a late bloomer

my 4/20 response  

thegrlsnme 67F
2769 posts
4/18/2015 6:20 am
my 4/20 response

good morning, hope all is well with you. I hope you had a pleasurable evening.

I receive a message from someone on another site I am on. The dude, notices I am 4/20 friendly, but prefer not to date men that do drugs. He did mention it in a joking way. I am sure some people might think like he did. I smoke weed, but won't date men that do drugs.

My response back was: hello, ok, maryjane is not a drug, it is a plant that can still be found growing wildly anywhere in this country. Anything else is altered, pills, heroin, many other drugs, including cigarettes and liquor. I started smoking almost 3 years ago to help with the chronic pain I had from my hip. It also helps me sleep at night. I only smoke at night while relaxing. One other thing I discovered about weed, it is the best aphrodisiac out there. Oh my God, it intensifies the sex. Now, it's your turn.

I am not advocating anything at all, this is my explanation as to why I am 4/20 friendly. Before I started smoking regularly, I would have laughed at you and said, no not me. I can guarantee there are many of you out there the same way. That's ok. Hell, my brothers would drink before they smoked, it's just the way it is. I know they don't approve, but they love me and accept it.

I also know that some of you pass me by because of that, and that is ok. I used to pass all men over that smoked cigarettes. Then, one day I realized I was overlooking some cool guys because they did something I didn't particularly liked. I can and have dated men that smoke.

Many of us do many things that may be a dealbreaker for us. If it is something like smoking, meet the person if you are attracted to them. Work something out that works for both of you, like smoking outside. Or not.

I can most certainly guarantee there are many other things out there that are worse than smoking weed. One day you may be at the end of your rope, with something like chronic pain, or a family member that is dieing because they have no appetite or just plain hurt to much. I can tell you this, IF MY MOTHER WERE ALIVE AT THE MOMENT, and suffering like she was, SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN GIVEN EDIBLES. But, there again, it's up to each person to decide what they are willing to do.

Of course for me, the kicker is, it is the best aphrodisiac out there. It intensifies those nerve endings, making the pleasure, more pleasurable. Plus you get all the squirting you can handle. nuff said.

Enjoy the ride on your journey here...................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
fivestar562 66M
284 posts
4/18/2015 6:39 am

 You have your viewpoint. Just make sure it does not become addition.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/18/2015 7:32 am
    Quoting fivestar562:
    You have your viewpoint. Just make sure it does not become addition.
mmmmmm, an addict. according to the u.s. government if you have two drinks daily you are an alcholholic. I am sure I am classified as an addict because I smoke a joint each evening. Maybe I could have become addicted to the oxy 30's, 15's. lore tabs and percacets they put me on. NO, I told the docs they were useless. My docs know about my weed habit, if you want to call it that. let me see, I could think of worse things to be addicted to if I was. and by the way, my sister is a state trooper, we have all had these discussions..........thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/18/2015 7:33 am
    Quoting  :
isn't it awesome..................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/18/2015 7:33 am
    Quoting  :
thank you, but as you can see, I did get one, don't get addicted......thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/18/2015 2:36 pm
    Quoting saw_guy:
    I'm one of those that would rather smoke than drink any day. Never could stand alcohol, but really loved a good joint, or 2, or 5.
there ya go, a joint, or 2 or 5......................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
4/18/2015 2:43 pm

 I am glad to see you say it's a natural substance, unlike any drugs out there...man made, chemically altered...cigs...yeah, all bad stuff. But herb was given to us as a purely natural remedy and it's about damn time the government got off their asses and realized the benefits.

Ummm... did you say squirting?
Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


littlejohnson616 64M
433 posts
4/18/2015 4:39 pm

 Drug effects differ greatly from person to person. Coke spikes my libido, MJ never affected it at all.


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/18/2015 6:33 pm
    Quoting mcmaniac:
    I have a couple of drags about an hour before bed. I'm such a light sleeper it's the only way I can get a few good hours of sleep.
    If a woman has an issue with me smoking weed I would want to know it up front, because I don't plan on stopping. I barely smoke more than a gram a week. I might be "addited".
I am like you Mcmaniac. I use it to help with sleep as well, of course if I have a lover, the wild sex commences first, then the sleep........>>!happyf; I can say I average a joint or 2 small bowls. I am up front about it, first of all on the profile, and I make sure the person I am meeting knows. If it's a deal breaker, that's ok. We all have our deal breakers.................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/18/2015 6:38 pm
    Quoting littlejohnson616:
    Drug effects differ greatly from person to person. Coke spikes my libido, MJ never affected it at all.
I don't know about all that other stuff....................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


thegrlsnme 67F
1683 posts
4/18/2015 6:43 pm
    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    I am glad to see you say it's a natural substance, unlike any drugs out there...man made, chemically altered...cigs...yeah, all bad stuff. But herb was given to us as a purely natural remedy and it's about damn time the government got off their asses and realized the benefits.

    Ummm... did you say squirting?
The last time I looked, it was a plant that grows naturally, that can be injested in its natural state. That has medicinal effects on people. As well as being the best aphrodisiac out there....................thegrls
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls


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