Am I alone...are there real people, that I haven't met on the site and running the site ?  

When I first signed up, things were great, could have had a different partner every day.
As that 3 month membership was ending, it was like 'no way', 'no body'. Purchased another 3 months, things go along and meet a few new fellahs, some I had to turn away, due to that I prefer not to do marrieds, or exclusive (at least not for the 1st few months)attachments. Every time I have contacted VisionPersonals.com, about one thing or the other they totally ignore me. I am not into getting points and free memberships, I have a spine issue, one day I may not be able to walk let alone have sex, that is why I joined VisionPersonals.com. Plus, I was 'self induced' 15 years of celibacy. I joined for sex, with clean, fat friendly, some intelligence, nice fellah's. There are a few really hot ones, and I'm not telling. VisionPersonals.com has continued to ignore my questions, I am supposed to chat about what I can not find in the help area, why do we pay them? I've been matched to a bi female and her husband in the U.K.; I am, straight and do not travel as much as I wish I could. Now many of my matches are hundreds of miles away and there will be 4 - 6 x's in our compatibility charts.
I love the ones where you are 100%, but one of the two, has not filled out the except;
'prefer not to say' on most of the issues,found nice to know. All, please be sure to read;
'Terms of Use' no one except the user is responsible for everything! Freedom of Speech, even your own. Everything you post, blog, Bling
your points & everything can be pulled right out from under your feet, if they choose to, for no or any reason they deem fit. Makes you feel real good when you get your bill!