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Ok...Read at your own risk...  

afunone66 55M
14 posts
7/9/2010 1:55 pm
Ok...Read at your own risk...


I wasn't going to bother doing this because I figure I will get some hate mail and nasty comments and likely piss a few people off but ...who cares..here it goes.
1) For God's sakes people.....when you are in chat or on VisionPersonals.com..be real! There are so many fakes and wannabes out there that anymore it's getting hard to even have fun chatting anymore. We have enough dumbasses coming into rooms hiding behind their aliases and attacking people, that we don't need anymore people who claim to hate the place yet continue to show up under different names to watch and see who is talking about whom etc. COME IN UNDER YOUR OWN NAME ! Don't hide behind a fake name if you are a regular in a room, people can and do find out and you end up looking really stupid for trying to fool people when all you are doing is trying to fool yourself!
2) Decide what the hell you want from here! Don't sit there bashing people and then 2 mins later you are hitting on that same type of person you just bashed and expect them to continue talking to you. I have seen it too many times where I see a woman ( only as an example ) say how she's so sick of men etc etc and how if she just stuck with women she wouldn't have these problems yet a guy says hi and she's all over him like white on rice! ( And yes I have seen men do the exact same thing ) If you want people to talk with you , be nice to them, don't lump all the people in with the bad apples, just because you had a bad experience with a woman doesn't mean all women are bad and same goes for the men,one bad guy does not make all men bad.
3) When you are chatting, be nice.It won't hurt for you to "lower your standards a bit", talk to that person that no one talks to, you might just find out that person is a gem and you could have hit pay dirt, but by ignoring them, you could have lost out.
Anyways, I have gone on far too long, feel free to comment ( good or bad ). I have broad shoulders and can take it if you want to call me bad names go right ahead, it will only just prove what I have said in above statements. Happy Hunting to you all!!!

sofreakintasty 56F

7/9/2010 7:28 pm

i agree with this 100% i almost don't want to go in the room because some of the crap. I'm glad you wrote this it needed to be said.


mysteryguesswho 64F

8/8/2010 9:58 pm

Afun I agree with you totally. Too much bashing, too much game playing, Too many fakes... Be good to all.


afunone66 55M
37 posts
1/14/2012 9:52 pm

Thanks ladies!


toyseeker4m3 61F

3/22/2013 11:17 pm

Very nice and very true.. Good going


afunone66 55M
37 posts
4/27/2016 7:59 pm

I hope so AllofMe, it's nice to get some new chatters coming in, hopefully you bring people with you as well!


afunone66 55M
37 posts
9/4/2016 4:22 pm

Author, I can't say it's all bad , there are some nights we have a blast in them, just some of the people are a bit off kilter, and it's likely worse for the women, they come in and it's like an all you can eat buffet and some men forget real quickly how to speak to a woman, fair is fair, get to your point but I know very few woman who are going to jump into the sack with a guy they have never ever seen before...and I mean never seen lol! So if you can get passed that, the room is usually fun.


fkmeallnitelong9 53F  
2586 posts
10/30/2016 11:47 am

THAT IS EXACTLY WHY I DON'T GO INTO CHAT ROOM AT ALL.....thank you for making me realize that I made the correct decision....{=}


afunone66 55M
37 posts
10/30/2016 12:00 pm

You're very welcome fkme, I still do go in, but I learned to laugh on my side of the computer when it happens, the way I figure, it just shows me all the more reason NOT to meet that person.


afunone66 55M
37 posts
12/30/2016 2:51 pm

No I don't mind at all, feel free to comment anytime you wish to, and to steal a line from you..... one can never have enough JOY in their life ...


blonde_sunlover 62F
5 posts
4/22/2017 9:11 am

Well said and very true Afunone !


icewoman2006 66F  
10 posts
9/9/2018 11:15 am

Well said afunone.,Yes there are some rude people and not talkative people in the rooms,I have been in since 2006 and I think have chatted with mayb 10 people,It seems they get in there own little group of friend and phuck the rest,Like u say the ignored person could b a gem but the rude wood never find out,,Take care!!


afunone66 55M
37 posts
5/10/2019 9:02 am

Agreed babygirl, but as a standard member and I.M being sporadic at best, one on one is hard to arrange.


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