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Strange Random Thought; Perhaps Even Morbid  

ladyj_1957 66F
3233 posts
8/20/2016 2:49 am
Strange Random Thought; Perhaps Even Morbid

Yesterday I googled the name of a former lover. A man that I met through this site. Almost three years ago, he suddenly stopped contacting me. I had been saying no to date requests, so I took it that he was no longer interested. Emails and text messages went unanswered. However, I did see him active here for a short time.

My google search turned up his obituary. I didn't expect that. I knew he had a small medical issue, but he was seeing a cardiologist, so I would expect them to be on top of it. He was young, only 58.

Since reading the obituary, I've been thinking that there have been four men that I met here that have died before they were sixty. That's very young, and it's a high number considering how few I know here and how many I know out in the regular world. Yet, in my regular life, I have only known two men in my entire lifetime to die premature deaths.

It got me thinking that there could possibly some correlation between extraordinary sex drive and health. Seems to me that I've discussed more medical conditions here than I do out in the regular world.

What do you think? Is my mind just working overtime? Could it be that people with health issues seek to satisfy their lust because they feel the urgency of time? Or, does being sneaky put stress on our health?
"Don't count the days, make the days count"
jbdutch 58M
107 posts
8/22/2016 7:07 pm

 Hay beautiful Good to see you are well .


ladyj_1957 replies on 8/22/2016 9:59 pm:
You know how to make my ego swell.

zman19651000 58M  
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4 posts
8/23/2016 3:57 am

 Hmm, I have had many friends who have passed too early in life. Sudden, unexpected and unnatural. I have to ask.......where these men stepping out? That can be stressful.


Shifgrethor 68M
588 posts
8/27/2016 12:15 pm

 I think your sample sizes are too small for meaningful conclusions.
You can search for research studies that address this study, or just note that it is an interesting coincidence.


ladyj_1957 replies on 8/28/2016 4:32 am:
It's a scary coincidence from where I stand. Although, probably even scarier for those guys that think of screwing me.

ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
8/28/2016 4:35 am

 Maybe I was just too rough on these guys. Fucked and sucked the life right out of them. Wore their hearts out.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"


Shifgrethor 68M
588 posts
8/29/2016 8:04 pm

 As a new feature of VisionPersonals.com, standard members (e.g. yours truly) are no longer able to read messages sent to them by other members. I saw that you sent a message but do not know what it said.


ladyj_1957 replies on 9/1/2016 6:13 am:
Once again, they're allowing free member women advantages that they don't give to men. In fact they are promising me free gold as a reward for so much writing.

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