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Blogs > ladyj_1957 > Lady J's Musings

To drink, or not to drink...  

ladyj_1957 66F
3233 posts
10/4/2014 3:30 am
To drink, or not to drink...
You're meeting someone for sex. Do you drink before or during the date?

For me, there is a fine line of what is a good amount of alcohol to inbibe. A little will ease fears and inhibitions. A little too much and I see my fears increase, my inhibitions get stronger, my body desensitizes and I enjoy the sex less and don't get aroused as much, and on the flip side, it can relax me and make me sleepy.

So, I have stayed away from drinking on VisionPersonals.com dates pretty much.

How does alcohol effect you sexually?



I take mine on the rocks, no salt.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"
Shifgrethor 68M
588 posts
10/4/2014 11:02 am

 Except for occasional special events, I no longer drink. When I did, a beer or two would increase my libido, wine tends to lead to loss of erection, and hard liquor makes everything dull or diminished.
If I want to perform sexually, sobriety seems to be better preparation than any type of alcohol.


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
10/5/2014 8:07 am

 I would sooner be sober for sex and have better memories after.


jbdutch 58M
107 posts
10/5/2014 1:52 pm

 I prefer not to drink but i like to see the lady have one or too.


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