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A Question Has Been Raised  

ladyj_1957 66F
3234 posts
9/3/2014 3:45 am
A Question Has Been Raised
You are trying to cultivate a relationship with this woman (for the purpose of discussion, we'll say me). You are trying to get some nookie, into her pants, and have her be your girl. You happen upon a circumstance where you can tell her she's wrong, or that you told he so.

The question raised is whether, as a guy so close to inserting your cock in her heavenly mons, do you risk it by telling her she's wrong?

As if, I could ever be wrong. LOL
Yes
No

"Don't count the days, make the days count"
flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
9/3/2014 4:00 am

 If you're going to finally have sex, then, so I'm led to believe, make-up sex is quite fantastic! So speak honestly, have the fight, then have the sex!


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
9/3/2014 6:11 am

 I hope not to be at that point. Usually, early in the relationship, both are blinded by attraction. For me, I would lose interest fast and so will the little head.

Cum to my blog and respond. Have a great kissing fun time.


missing2much61 62M
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9/3/2014 6:16 am

 i would never "rub it in" that a woman was wrong...heck, a man either, just not my style. I know i'll be wrong someday, too (still waiting for that to happen )


Shifgrethor 68M
588 posts
9/3/2014 7:50 pm

 It is never appropriate to say that, "I told you so."
As far as telling her she is wrong, there is a certain amount of arrogance in feeling that you are absolutely right and in a position to tell someone that they are wrong.
If no harm will come from not speaking up, why invite conflict? If someone might be harmed by allowing an error to continue uncorrected, then there are diplomatic ways to express your doubts about the accuracy of their information. Then be prepared to back down should they be right and able to prove it.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
9/4/2014 5:26 pm

 Depends on how unsafe a situation her being wrong would create. If not something unsafe or of serious consequence then why pick a fight? For Pride?
If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
9/6/2014 9:16 am

 I see that the guys that figuratively show their faces are going to stick to their convictions. However, those that stay anonymous voted that they would not. So, I conclude it is an individual personality thing.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"


182east 66M
1295 posts
9/7/2014 3:47 am

 HELL NO!!!
Why?? Maybe to start ANOTHER disagreement??
Hmmm..to feed your own ego??
To just "Be right"???
To "Win"?? And lose the allways elusive chance to visit her "Heavenly Mons??
What is it the Men who have been married for 50 yrs say??
"She is ALLWAYS RIGHT"
Like it or not it you will be happier in the long run...
I say never argue with a woman..just Dicker!!!
HA HA Sorry could not refrain myself!!!


ladyj_1957 replies on 9/7/2014 12:34 pm:
Personally, I try never to argue, be it with a man, woman, or child. I don't have the skills to win. I know a couple of people that will argue anything.

My favorite of all times, was a co-worker that had on a beautiful blouse. I said, "that's a gorgeous lavender top", to which she responded, "oh, but it's lilac." Immediately, I shut my mouth and just smiled.

rm_marksden5 72M
1 post
9/9/2014 3:01 pm

 I'm a straight shooter (no pun intended) and always speak my mind.


ladyj_1957 replies on 9/12/2014 3:33 am:
We can all be straight shooters, the real test is in how much of someone elses straight shooting we can take.

rm_ittakes_us2 61M
37 posts
9/19/2014 3:17 am

 U said it urself...... ur never wrong! ! Especially when ur close enough to fuckin that u could almost smell it!!!! Noimsayin!!


TouchJunkie2 73M
11 posts
9/20/2014 4:22 pm

 Far be it from me to say she/you is/are wrong. I'd be more interested in the background of the statement and perhaps venturing to disagree - which could set up an intriguing wager with access to her "heavenly mons" as what I would gain should she prove to be merely misinformed.


oroborostwo 44M
651 posts
9/28/2014 3:57 am

 This is the problem with cultivate a relationship. One false move and you don't get to fuck. So yes, in the past, when dating I would lie to get sex. I don't like that, so I changed. Now, here on this web site, I'm looking for girls to make cum and girls that will make me cum. This is more honest. If feeling develop over time, great. But sex has to come first then we both know where we stand and no one has to lie. Just my view point.
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4theonly1 70M
31 posts
10/1/2014 10:49 am

 The only reason to ever exercise the I told you so option is to stroke your own ego. There's no need for that unless you feel inferior in some regard. Sex as part of the equation doesn't change the right choice.


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