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Blogs > ladyj_1957 > Lady J's Musings

Feeling the sadness  

ladyj_1957 66F
3233 posts
10/2/2012 8:09 pm
Feeling the sadness

I said good-bye so many times this year. It is always so hard. One good-bye always brings back the pain and sadness of so many prvious ones. Not sure how people in certain businesses handle it.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"
never2busy4youX 61M
334 posts
10/3/2012 3:53 am

 Hello ...


rm_Tinman3222 69M
224 posts
10/4/2012 4:50 pm

 It is not nor has it ever been easy. Goodbye is a final response, sometimes it is the right response,sometimes not


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
10/6/2012 11:51 am
    Quoting rm_Tinman3222:
    It is not nor has it ever been easy. Goodbye is a final response, sometimes it is the right response,sometimes not
True, but sometimes what one person sees as the right response, another sees as the wrong response. Mostly though, I have been experiencing good-byes that are final and not up for debate as to whether they are right or wrong, they are just the course of life.

One in particular has left me with many questions as to how well did I (or anyone) know this person. In addition, I'm dealing with guilt and questioning my own life. Nothing serious, just feeling sad and don't want to bother anyone at home with it.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"


passion4u567 68M
8 posts
10/8/2012 3:04 pm

 Hello ladyj57
I have read your posting about saying good bye and it is something we all have to face as adults, weather we are married single or having an affair .We as humans can never know some one 100 percent, because we can't read their mind.We tell our lovers what we like and the things that pleases us, but that also changes from day to day, why do people change? its because we are always growing intellectually and our desire for things also changes.Strong communication between two people helps, but in the long run if you are ment to be it will be, its all about life and that special connection with our mates, so don't feel guilty or bad about what happen its life


never2busy4youX 61M
334 posts
10/9/2012 7:24 am
    Quoting ladyj_1957:
    True, but sometimes what one person sees as the right response, another sees as the wrong response. Mostly though, I have been experiencing good-byes that are final and not up for debate as to whether they are right or wrong, they are just the course of life.

    One in particular has left me with many questions as to how well did I (or anyone) know this person. In addition, I'm dealing with guilt and questioning my own life. Nothing serious, just feeling sad and don't want to bother anyone at home with it.
bother me . . .


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
10/9/2012 3:52 pm

 Are you sure? It's a long convoluted story. And my mind is probably best left to wrestle with those ghosts without me having to translate the emotion to language.

But thank you, if I need someone, I'll turn to you.
"Don't count the days, make the days count"


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