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How is it that things change, even when nothing happens?  

ladyj_1957 66F
3233 posts
1/24/2012 7:00 pm
How is it that things change, even when nothing happens?


Why is it that people change and how we relate to each other changes, even when nothing happens between us. No fights, disagreements, or even significant interactions.

If I ever understand human dynamics, I'll need to worry that the world in coming to an end.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


gottaring 52F
15850 posts
1/24/2012 8:18 pm

An excellent question! I wish I had the answer .

When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


never2busy4youX 61M
334 posts
1/25/2012 3:39 am

    Quoting gottaring:
    An excellent question! I wish I had the answer .
Ouch! Pretty harsh gottaring . . . maybe you need to change your surroundings love.


never2busy4youX 61M
334 posts
1/25/2012 3:41 am

We're all influenced by the things that occur in out daily lives ... are you the same person you were?


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/25/2012 4:36 am

    Quoting  :

For years I've been hoping that the man I go to bed with each night would be a different man in the morning. No such luck!

I understand subtle changes, but I'm perplexed by major swings in attitude or treatment. I wish I could just roll with it and not question it. Alas, my personality flaw, I question everything.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/25/2012 4:40 am

    Quoting  :

A second thought, regarding your Hoda quote. I seduced his mind, and had his body, I thought I found his soul, but he's not mine and is clear that he never will be.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/25/2012 4:42 am

    Quoting gottaring:
    An excellent question! I wish I had the answer .
Shouldn't your Giants cap be blue?

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/25/2012 4:46 am

    Quoting never2busy4youX:
    Ouch! Pretty harsh gottaring . . . maybe you need to change your surroundings love.
What was harsh? She's correct. And who are you to talk about surroundings, look at the ledge you're hanging from. Get down off there and think about some nice level spot.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/25/2012 4:48 am

    Quoting never2busy4youX:
    We're all influenced by the things that occur in out daily lives ... are you the same person you were?
I checked my ID, yep, I'm the same person I was. LOL, I am just too funny, or not.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


rm_Tinman3222 69M
224 posts
1/25/2012 12:16 pm

    Quoting ladyj_1957:
    For years I've been hoping that the man I go to bed with each night would be a different man in the morning. No such luck!

    I understand subtle changes, but I'm perplexed by major swings in attitude or treatment. I wish I could just roll with it and not question it. Alas, my personality flaw, I question everything.
Being inquisitive is personality flaw? Where in the DSM IV is that? To me that shows a healthy intellect, unafraid of where the answers lead us.


never2busy4youX 61M
334 posts
1/26/2012 7:34 am

    Quoting ladyj_1957:
    What was harsh? She's correct. And who are you to talk about surroundings, look at the ledge you're hanging from. Get down off there and think about some nice level spot.
I may be dumber etc. etc. .... and she is wearing a Green Bay Packers hat. You know ... the team that the Giants stomped on a couple of weeks back

In reference to a safer spot .... when are we going to find one oh woman that never changes


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/26/2012 3:12 pm

    Quoting rm_Tinman3222:
    Being inquisitive is personality flaw? Where in the DSM IV is that? To me that shows a healthy intellect, unafraid of where the answers lead us.
Kind of scary that you referenced the DSM IV. Scarier still that I knew instantly what you were talking about. And most scary of all, I bought a copy of it for a friend (not cheap, I might add) several years ago.

I have a book mark sitting here on my desk. The front is a picture of Albert Einstein, and the back has a quote from him. "The important thing is not to stop questioning."

I agree with you and Einstein, however, many people don't. They view my constant questioning in a multitude of different ways, all of which are negative.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/26/2012 3:18 pm

    Quoting never2busy4youX:
    I may be dumber etc. etc. .... and she is wearing a Green Bay Packers hat. You know ... the team that the Giants stomped on a couple of weeks back

    In reference to a safer spot .... when are we going to find one oh woman that never changes
Just like a man, admits to something with the words "I may...."

Sarcasm and a joke...I know a Packers cap (in fact, I usually root for them when they aren't up against the Giants). Hell yes, they were clobbered by the Giants. Cool game!!!

While looking for the safer spot, think soft, that rock ledge looks mighty hard. I only like one thing hard.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/26/2012 3:19 pm

\8

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


rm_Tinman3222 69M
224 posts
1/26/2012 3:56 pm

I didn't mean to scare you. But we both what the DSM IV is. It is a scary publication, but it does help explain what we see in the news.


never2busy4youX 61M
334 posts
1/27/2012 5:16 am

    Quoting ladyj_1957:
    Just like a man, admits to something with the words "I may...."

    Sarcasm and a joke...I know a Packers cap (in fact, I usually root for them when they aren't up against the Giants). Hell yes, they were clobbered by the Giants. Cool game!!!

    While looking for the safer spot, think soft, that rock ledge looks mighty hard. I only like one thing hard.
just like a woman ... attempting to put all men into one category


ladyj_1957 66F
2359 posts
1/27/2012 2:57 pm

    Quoting never2busy4youX:
    just like a woman ... attempting to put all men into one category
Well, I am a woman....duh, that is why you're smitten with me.

"Don't count the days, make the days count"


dutchessbadboi 48M
41 posts
1/29/2012 6:54 pm

I gotta get me one of those green Giants hats.....LMFAO


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