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Out to lunch and feeling like I'm a few fries short?  

want2sub4 50F
1818 posts
8/4/2010 2:24 pm
Out to lunch and feeling like I'm a few fries short?




I don't know what the hell is going on with me.....but I know I don't fucking like it!

It just started in like the last week or so. I've only been blogging for about two months, I know I'm totally not out of shit to say. I'm just not feeling it lately? I'm rarely even commenting on the blogs I read. I'm not even chatting with a few of my blog buddies? (Sorry Annie and Mz!)

I even have about 10-12 posts in process. I get ideas all the time, so I write them down and add to them when the mood strikes. It really sucks because I know some of them will be funnier then hell (if I ever finish them)? WTF?

So what the hell is my problem? Have any of you fellow bloggers went through periods like this? If you have, what did you do about it?

For my regular readers, I need you to inspire me. What is it that keeps bringing you back here? What are your favorite posts? What would you like to see more of?

Btw I hope certain people noticed my correct (boring) use of punctuation on this post!





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Furbal1972 52M
18571 posts
8/4/2010 4:09 pm

I think we all go through this. I combated it by writing what I thought was dribble, and got some surprising responses to it.

Read my diary Journal of a Taxi Driver for taxi stories and pictures of flowers and trees.


AudioFilly 58F  
1897 posts
8/4/2010 5:49 pm

I'm very new to the blogs around here. In real life I write. I hit a bit of a block there & found my relief in writing my own blog here. But sometimes it's just a matter of pushing through & writing even when you don't feel like it. It doesn't all have to be brilliant.

The thing that made me into a watcher on your blog & that gets me excited when I see a new post from you is your style. The writing that usually attracts me is when I get a definite feel for who that person is by what they've written. With your blogs not only do I feel like I'm getting to know you, but that you're someone I would hang out with in real life. You sound like my girlfriends when we are sitting around a dinner table laughing & bitching & moaning together.

My advice would be to not worry too much about what people want to read. Instead just think about what you want to say. I always seem to do my best writing when I'm just writing for me.


MzGoddessDomina 53F
59726 posts
8/4/2010 6:56 pm

Writers block hits all of us. Its ok, just go with how you're feeling moment to moment. I always take a segment of my life and expand on it. That way the post is focused and not all over the place. Every day life can have its quirks that can be kind of comical. People will resonate on it and it will touch the right people. This is supposed to be fun so just have fun with it!


want2sub4 50F
2527 posts
8/4/2010 10:40 pm

    Quoting Furbal1972:
    I think we all go through this. I combated it by writing what I thought was dribble, and got some surprising responses to it.
Furbal,

Thanks hon, I thought I was already doing that though?? LOL. I will keep trying though!


"The truth shall set you free.....but first it will probably piss you the f{=}ck off!!"
ღ To Be Perfectly Blunt... ღ
~ღ~ Latest Posts ~ღ~
~~ Does this pole make me look fat~~

* A squirter Who fucking knewreally *~* Winning Losing Who the fuck cares *
Could I be a bigger mess *~* And now, back to our regularly scheduled program


want2sub4 50F
2527 posts
8/4/2010 10:45 pm

    Quoting  :

Annie,

Maybe a blah time writing....but I KNOW your LIFE isn't Blah!! LOL.
Same for the "bouncy" part!! Yay....bring on the oddities, I so need them!!

Awww thanks Annie,




"The truth shall set you free.....but first it will probably piss you the f{=}ck off!!"
ღ To Be Perfectly Blunt... ღ
~ღ~ Latest Posts ~ღ~
~~ Does this pole make me look fat~~

* A squirter Who fucking knewreally *~* Winning Losing Who the fuck cares *
Could I be a bigger mess *~* And now, back to our regularly scheduled program


want2sub4 50F
2527 posts
8/4/2010 10:50 pm

    Quoting AudioFilly:
    I'm very new to the blogs around here. In real life I write. I hit a bit of a block there & found my relief in writing my own blog here. But sometimes it's just a matter of pushing through & writing even when you don't feel like it. It doesn't all have to be brilliant.

    The thing that made me into a watcher on your blog & that gets me excited when I see a new post from you is your style. The writing that usually attracts me is when I get a definite feel for who that person is by what they've written. With your blogs not only do I feel like I'm getting to know you, but that you're someone I would hang out with in real life. You sound like my girlfriends when we are sitting around a dinner table laughing & bitching & moaning together.

    My advice would be to not worry too much about what people want to read. Instead just think about what you want to say. I always seem to do my best writing when I'm just writing for me.
Audio,

Thank you so much for watching, commenting and the great advice!

Not too mention the great compliments. That is exactly how I try to write....it's all me, good and bad!

I will definitely keep that in mind. You are soooo right about writing for me. It was sooo much easier when that was all I did. Now I find myself thinking about "not disappointing readers".....I need to get back to the basics!! So thanks!


"The truth shall set you free.....but first it will probably piss you the f{=}ck off!!"
ღ To Be Perfectly Blunt... ღ
~ღ~ Latest Posts ~ღ~
~~ Does this pole make me look fat~~

* A squirter Who fucking knewreally *~* Winning Losing Who the fuck cares *
Could I be a bigger mess *~* And now, back to our regularly scheduled program


want2sub4 50F
2527 posts
8/4/2010 10:52 pm

    Quoting MzGoddessDomina:
    Writers block hits all of us. Its ok, just go with how you're feeling moment to moment. I always take a segment of my life and expand on it. That way the post is focused and not all over the place. Every day life can have its quirks that can be kind of comical. People will resonate on it and it will touch the right people. This is supposed to be fun so just have fun with it!
As always....GREAT ADVICE!!

I need to keep in mind why I started blogging!


"The truth shall set you free.....but first it will probably piss you the f{=}ck off!!"
ღ To Be Perfectly Blunt... ღ
~ღ~ Latest Posts ~ღ~
~~ Does this pole make me look fat~~

* A squirter Who fucking knewreally *~* Winning Losing Who the fuck cares *
Could I be a bigger mess *~* And now, back to our regularly scheduled program


want2sub4 50F
2527 posts
8/4/2010 10:54 pm

    Quoting  :

LMFAO.......omg I AM SO SORRY!!! I wasn't even thinking!!

Hopefully this will make you smile?




"The truth shall set you free.....but first it will probably piss you the f{=}ck off!!"
ღ To Be Perfectly Blunt... ღ
~ღ~ Latest Posts ~ღ~
~~ Does this pole make me look fat~~

* A squirter Who fucking knewreally *~* Winning Losing Who the fuck cares *
Could I be a bigger mess *~* And now, back to our regularly scheduled program


rm_friend6022 63M
2936 posts
8/5/2010 7:12 am

I have constant writers block. I usually get desperate and throw out some ridiculous nonsense. No one seems to be able to tell the difference.


want2sub4 50F
2527 posts
8/6/2010 10:35 am

    Quoting rm_friend6022:
    I have constant writers block. I usually get desperate and throw out some ridiculous nonsense. No one seems to be able to tell the difference.
This is the first time for me. And I'm not liking it!

Everything usually just flows so easy, that's why some of my posts end up so long. Those are fun, easy and therapeutic for me.

With this "blockage" I'm feeling more pressure. Like everyone said, I just need to go back to writing for ME. Instead of trying to figure out what everyone else wants.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.



"The truth shall set you free.....but first it will probably piss you the f{=}ck off!!"
ღ To Be Perfectly Blunt... ღ
~ღ~ Latest Posts ~ღ~
~~ Does this pole make me look fat~~

* A squirter Who fucking knewreally *~* Winning Losing Who the fuck cares *
Could I be a bigger mess *~* And now, back to our regularly scheduled program


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