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Why are we all on here..  

supersly2004 52M
9 posts
9/8/2014 4:51 am
Why are we all on here..


Why is it a hot sexy lady needs to find a guy on this or another site??
Surely it can't be just for sex,as they can walk into any bar and grab a man...
But having a man for the night,is not enough to know about the guy,he might be a disaster in bed,he might not be what you seeking, but was there at the time to fulfil the sexual void/need at that time..
Cos surely its impossible to know everything about a random person whom you've just met,be it online, a bar or anywhere else...
Lust is great, if you both feel same way,if its one way then the other becomes a puppet,controlling freak even abusive or violent..
We all have issues,some more severe than others,and all have different ways of coping with them..
Some people just genuinely love sex,love taking risks, whilst others use it as a coping mechanism, I'm so curious to know other peoples views...
Im pretty sure its possible to find someone compatible to you on here,but also curious to know if it can ever last, as if we are used to the idea of filtering, is it possible not to want another that is more desirable, (married couples do get divorced) so whats to stop him/her walking away...
Im not just referring to women,just that its easier for a woman to get laid than it is for a guy...just my opinion...
""to be continued""...

WHY ARE WE HERE....

Hmmm i guess i was wanting answers, but is it a question nobody really wants to answer honestly, or they just don't know the answers..
Surely the fake people will know why they are on here..
Has anyone reading this, ever had a long term relationship with any member on here?
Im going to try and honestly answer to the best of my ability,why I'm on here....
next time........

supersly2004 52M
9 posts
9/23/2014 2:43 am

I can relate to that too, as I'm very unlikely to even chat to anyone who is on here just for a chat, rather than ask or listen to them, for the sole purpose I'm on here to meet for sex, it might be different if they state I'm here for chat with the possibility of it leading to sex lol
I think many people are guarded, don't think they are all honest with themselves for whatever reasons...
So if I've helped you in any way,I'm happier and hope you do find you're special one,as we all deserve that


supersly2004 52M
9 posts
10/3/2014 3:04 am

Hmmm very interesting too, i am guilty of giving out my number,as its my way of verifying I'm actually conversing with a female, also i found out its much easier to block someone off my phone than it is to add them..
I have phone number of about 5 people on here, we text regularly and most of them we haven't even met, i do have a rule of not calling anyone who i know to be married unless they call me, also if i call and after 3 tries get no response, tend not to call again,as i see myself as being a stalker lol
But of you, i have seen you on cam a few times so i know you are definitely female an sexy too.
Another reason for giving out my number is fact I'm not always on here,so if you need to contact me when offline.. I can relate to all you're saying, but would like to know,if you met someone and had the time of your life, won't you want to experience it again?
Im extremely grateful for your input..


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