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Why Most Women FAIL.....
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Why Most Women FAIL..... Well i was browsing the internet, I came across a topic that really kinda took me by surprised! "Why Most Women FAIL In The Bedroom..And What To Do About It.." so I think I gotta share em with all of ya even though u may beg to differ and say you are one of the few that never fails in bed  If you find that you are doing any of these three, you need to learn from your mistakes immediately so you can avoid these falls in the future and learn to do instead what will create an amazing sexual experience for you and your partner. Mistake #1 - Letting your mind work against you in bed Have you ever been in bed with your man, having sex and your mind starts to wander? You worry about work, or you're still mad about something he said earlier today or you're feeling kind of fat. Suddenly, you're trying really hard to try think about where you are and what you're doing. You throw in a fantasy. You try to FOCUS on having an orgasm but it just makes things worse. The window of opportunity has closed and you're left frustrated again. I've got news for you. You are NOT alone!  What women need to know is that there are actually 2 G-SPOTS. There is one between her legs. We all know about that one. But there is another one. A far more important one. And a very NEGLECTED ONE. And that one is the one between her ears. That's right, our minds. And our mind is by far the most crucial when it comes to sex. Because if it's not with us, it's against us. By trying to hard and thinking too much, we can hit a point where we know an orgasm is just never going to happen. Did you know that Pfizer Pharmaceuticals cancelled its study for the female Viagra because, "There's a disconnect in many women between genital changes and mental changes. This disconnect does not exist in men. Men consistently get erections in the presence of naked women and want to have sex. With women, things depend on a myriad of factors.'' Among those factors? Willingness, the actual desire to have sex, even the way women feel about themselves. It's an embarrassing problem for so many women, but you don't have to be one of them. Mistake #2 - You don't REALLY know how to rock his world with a great BJ. Ever feel like you're just winging it? You're looking at your man's erection, wondering if you should just try use your mouth only or maybe your hand, but you're not quite sure how or what combination. Or maybe you're in it for the long haul with him and you don't know how to keep your mouth and throat relaxed or you just don;t know if he likes what you're doing! A lot of women ask themselves, how do I give a really great blowjob? This is probably one of the most common fears that we women have and probably the easiest one to fix! The easy answer? Combine both your mouth and hands. One hand should be an extension of your mouth while the other hand should be stimulating and teasing other parts of his body. But it's not just knowing where to put your hands or remembering to keep everything very lubricated. It's about being really into what you're doing, making your man feel desired, and enjoying the power that you have at that moment! Confidence and desire for your man can be just as big of a part to oral sex as where you put your mouth. Mistake #3 - Silence = So-So Sex Be clear on this: If you don't communicate with your man, your sex life will not change. Let me say this again. If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting! And a sex life that doesn't get better often gets worse. That's right. Your guy is not a mind reader and neither are you. So how do u really expect either one of you to really know what the other one wants or needs unless you talk about it? You two may have gotten into the same old routine and we all know the word for that: BORING  So you want to make the change right? But how do u bring up the topic without shattering his fragile male ego or feeling totally insecure and exposed? Sometimes it's as easy as a simple game of show and tell. Instead of trying to stop the action and telling him how you want him to touch you, you can take his hand, while kissing his ear, whispering, "You know what else feels good?" and guide his hand, using his fingers to pleasure yourself. Not only will you get what you want, but he'll get doubly turned on by your confidence. But but but...I know it's easy to look at some of these mistakes and think, "Great, that's what I do! Now what?" Here's the great news. That is you doesn't have to be you. You get rid of the old beliefs and have room in your head for this new happy, healthy sexuality. And you can actually become that incredible satisfied and confident woman you've always wanted to be! All u need to do is loosen up and have fun! There you go with all the rants and ways to kinda solve it. You got it within you and all you have to do is experiment, communicate and without at least trying, nothing is gonna come out of it  * ~ Fortify yourself with contentment, for this is an impregnable fortress ~ * |
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hey babe thanks! cheers * ~ Fortify yourself with contentment, for this is an impregnable fortress ~ *
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lol thanks, I am glad you like it   * ~ Fortify yourself with contentment, for this is an impregnable fortress ~ *
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