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Blogs > wanton_cpl > Ponderings

Life vs Lifestyle  

wanton_cpl 53M/54F  
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1/31/2010 10:23 am
Life vs Lifestyle

We have a great deal of respect and awe for many of the people on this site. How do you manage to find a nice balance between life and lifestyle? This is our biggest challenge. It seems that almost everytime we click with someone (someones) something comes up and it gets pushed to the back burner. If anyone has nice neat little tricks/solutions to this challenge please let us know. We love our experiences that we have here but get frustrated with the hurdles that seem to pop up and stop/delay us from experiencing our new friends in person. Our guess is that we are rather frustrating to potential friends because we have a flurry of activity and then drop off the face of the planet for a while...to those people, we're truly sorry, never meant to be a pain in the ass (in the bad way at least.) Enough whining for today...if anyone reads this and has any insight please pass it on.

cejaypage 51M/50F
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1/31/2010 3:55 pm

 we find if we make plans we do everything in are power to stick with them. As we live outside of Edmonton, we make plans for the whole weekend.It can be a juggling act forsure


sensualcarress69 57M/51F
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2/23/2010 11:19 am

 One thing that works for us is Sunday nights. We work at getting little things caught up through the weekend (laundry, kids homework, ect) so that Sundays we can get out for a few quite hours. There's always going to be some planning needed for those longer "Play sessions", but those cozy little nights meeting new people or staying in touch with our existing friends network click on Sunday nights.

Play Safe!
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needawetgirl 68M
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2/28/2011 3:35 pm

 Communication works wonders


needawetgirl 68M
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3/1/2011 10:26 am

 please stop by and say hello ... real


needawetgirl 68M
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3/18/2011 2:49 pm

 anybody home


kvorka02 50M
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6/12/2011 5:56 am

 i agree very hard to hook up,communication is the best bet though


drilluhard2 49M
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1/1/2012 2:39 pm

 I doubt that anyone here would be getting fustrated with you.
As like you say life in general is very busy and when your operating out of the norm (swinging)you just have to enjoy every minute that you do get. Things happen when they happen and great things take time


jaunhornyguy 63M
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12/9/2013 3:20 pm

 playing in lifestyle with kids is a challenge for sure sometimes if possible book a room for weekend if kids are old enough and you can leave them at how fingers crossed lol
i noticed going to places and either wrong address given meets never show up so many problems and work always seems to be in the way for me
have some free time for next 3 weeks


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