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Blogs > openwm > Just a Thought

Some Nerve  

openwm 58M
1313 posts
8/11/2011 2:11 pm
Some Nerve

The other day, I was looking at the people who had viewed my profile. I saw a name I had not seen before and being my typical self, they were only 5 miles from me according to A.F.F. so I had to leave an email message for them to say hello.

Now on this profile, it of course did not offer any photo nor much of a description of the couple themselves. Don't you just love the Prefer Not to Say option? Their profile was pretty clear that they were searching for someone to fuck his wife and in a younger age bracket than me even though they are my same age. No biggie. Understand preference.

Now me being me, if you are close to me, I'm willing to meet most people and offer a friendly hand shake to most all as well. SO I sent a happy greetings type of note. In my message, it clearly stated a welcoming and offered the opportunity to meet and say hello. No intentions or misleading were present. No desire for sex or anything like that. In response, was a rather rude statement of the following: I quote "Go fuck your fat wife and leave us alone. ---------------------------------------------------"

Now first off, this idiot makes it impossible to even reply to them. Which in my opinion, this fool just isn't' even worth getting upset over. Did the comment piss me off? Sure. But if your first impression is that of a total asshole, than I don't care to know who you are anyway. It's his loss and not mine. I still don'$t understand his hostility and aggression towards someone he does not know. Did I offend him because I didn't offer to fuck his wife???? Frankly, if you treat your wife like she is the town slut, I don't have much respect for you to begin with. I actually feel sorry for his wife.

I understand there are many here that do not have pure motives and are less than honesty about who they are and what they want. I for one am not that guy. I am clear about who I am and what I want. I try not to hide anything. At the same time, I won't volunteer all my business to just everyone either. If you feel I'm untrustworthy or not truthful in my intentions, then be polite and ignore me. But to insult the woman I love and have chosen to be with isn't cool. In fact, if you said it to me face to face, you might even get hurt. There was a time when you could take my girlfriend but don't touch my car. That shit doesn't apply anymore. You can have my crap but don't Touch or Talk about my family. They are mine Proudly!

So to Mr and Mrs Asshole.... I feel sorry for you Mrs Asshole and you can thank your prick of a husband for loosing out on the opportunity to meet someone worth meeting. Have a nice life!

openwm 58M
6971 posts
9/7/2011 6:30 pm
    Quoting  :
Thank you. I'd still love to hook back up with you two for a visit.


openwm 58M
6971 posts
8/14/2011 12:28 pm
    Quoting rm_geysergirl:
    unbelievably & unnecessarily rude response..
    really, one thing to say, no thanks, no interest in anything other than finding someone to drill my wife..as opposed to sending a degrading statement.. and this over a welcome email??
    don't take it personally.
I didn't take it personally. I started too but then realized the source. As for your other comment to me about making something grow.... I don't think you have any problem at all in that department. I already know for a fact that you are successful at making that happen!


rm_geysergirl 59F
10799 posts
8/14/2011 8:07 am

 unbelievably & unnecessarily rude response..
really, one thing to say, no thanks, no interest in anything other than finding someone to drill my wife..as opposed to sending a degrading statement.. and this over a welcome email??
don't take it personally.
Captivate my mind...and who knows what will follow. Discover more of my ramblings at [blog geysergirl]


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/12/2011 5:15 am

 maybe it was just a dude {not even actual couple} using the profile to perv around the pics and vids, on this site, so he can jerk off, when his FAT wife says, "not tonight honey, i have a headache"...


openwm replies on 8/13/2011 9:31 am:
I am inclined to believe the same thing. It was a bogus profile with only some freak at the other end.

SecretEarNoTears 54F
760 posts
8/12/2011 3:00 am

 How special of them! I wouldn't take it personally. They probably did you a favor...they sound full of drama. It's probably just some guy pretending his wife is interested, but he's just after some attention of his own.


openwm replies on 8/13/2011 9:32 am:
I only took it personally for a moment because of the attack on my wife. Guess it's a guy thing. Regardless, this jerk didn't get to stay rent free in my head for long. If anything, I owe him a favor of getting me out of me for a while.

marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
8/11/2011 11:35 pm

 Have come across some very rude people on here, but the nice ones far out weigh the bad ones.


openwm replies on 8/13/2011 9:33 am:
Good to see you sweetie! Sorry I haven't been around much lately. Been stuck in the middle of life and not making my rounds like normal.

rockinr55 67M
1689 posts
8/11/2011 3:48 pm

I know what you mean. I used to be on IM and would see someone local and I thought I would message them to say, "Hello". Or maybe I'd do the same thing with an email. Or I saw something on a profile that would pique my interest, and I mean something in a non-sexual vein. I have had more than one reply that went along the lines of, "I am not gay or bi. F*** off, you fag."

Now I'm not stupid. If you're not gay or bi, I am not contacting you for sex. It's the same as my not wanting a woman to contact me for sex. It ain't gonna happen. The one place that I do feel comfortable commenting is on people's blogs. It seems that people who blog are interested in other's comments, irrespective of their orientation. Not one blogger has insulted me or banned me because of my orientation.

I empathize and agree with you. These type of people miss out on meeting some great people like you and me...lol.

Great post.

Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.---E.E. Cummings


openwm replies on 8/13/2011 9:38 am:
For the most part, the blogs have been a safe place for me as well. As we all know, the blog wars will always continue to some degree but I'm glad it hasn't made it my way directly. It's a big reason I seep things honest. If you tell stories, it gets hard to remember who you told what lie too. Keep it real and that is one thing you don't have to worry about.

A2hander4u 48M

8/11/2011 3:20 pm

 Lol, I love the name you created for them.


openwm replies on 8/13/2011 9:38 am:
Glad you liked it. He picked it himself.

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