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Blogs > openwm > Just a Thought

What Toys do you prefer?  

openwm 58M
1313 posts
11/15/2010 6:01 am
What Toys do you prefer?

When it comes to toys for our ladies, there seems to be an endless list of possible choices to choose from. Now from my perspective, I have no problems introducing or having them in the bedroom. I've also known men that seems to be embarrassed at the mere thought of bringing toys into bedroom activities. Not in all cases but the majority of these same men have some aversion to performing orally on their partners too. I simply find that strange.

When I think about having sex with a potential partner, I think about what she would like. I want to know her desires and fantasies. The more information she can feed me, the more in tune I can be to satisfy her desires. I'm not one to have sex for the simple act of having sex. I want each time to be as fulfilling and pleasurable for myself and my partner. A large part of my pleasure comes strictly from seeing her pleasure.

As far as toys are concerned, some women have varied tastes. My spouse has her Magic Wand and LOVES it. She loves the fact it's electric and is quite powerful at clitoral stimulation. However, she will not use one that penetrates her body. I find that odd but I respect her wishes. She only wants me inside her. That I can understand yet at the same time, I like my experiences to go for long periods of time and that just isn't her.

I guess what I'm curious to know is what toys if any do you prefer? Do you prefer battery or electric? Do you prefer internal or external preferences? What toy would you recommend for one or both methods?

As typical, another blogger sparked my interest in this subject matter so here I post. I hope each of you were able to have a pleasant weekend. I'm happy to report that once more we at my home had a wonderful weekend all up until time to make the little man do homework her had left over from Friday.

openwm 58M
6971 posts
12/6/2010 3:35 am

 I can take them or leave them but I enjoy something different every once in a while.


openwm 58M
6971 posts
12/6/2010 3:34 am
    Quoting  :
I'd be glad to oblige!


rm_ISORareGem 60F
8183 posts
12/6/2010 1:20 am

 sorry, no toys here.
what the world needs now..........


openwm 58M
6971 posts
11/17/2010 12:07 pm
    Quoting  :
Well WHO do you think sparked my interest in this particular blog? I have no doubt that you would have the ability to make me nuts! In a good way. (((Hugs)))


openwm 58M
6971 posts
11/15/2010 4:10 pm
    Quoting marysia4u:
    My ex husband was extremely boring when it came to sex and was only interested in himself.

    My eyes were opened when my sister talked me into joining this site....boy were they opened.

    I went to a sex toy party last Friday. The options were endless. Have heard of electric toys, but have never seen any or know anyone that has one.

    If your wife does not like to insert toys, there are plenty of stimulator's that you wear on your finger, hers or yours. Maybe you could put one in her Christmas stocking.

    And NO, I'm not telling you what I bought.

Awwww come on... now why won't you tell us what your favorite one is.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
11/15/2010 1:56 pm

 My ex husband was extremely boring when it came to sex and was only interested in himself.

My eyes were opened when my sister talked me into joining this site....boy were they opened.

I went to a sex toy party last Friday. The options were endless. Have heard of electric toys, but have never seen any or know anyone that has one.

If your wife does not like to insert toys, there are plenty of stimulator's that you wear on your finger, hers or yours. Maybe you could put one in her Christmas stocking.

And NO, I'm not telling you what I bought.


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