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Blogs > hotmamabear > Crazy Girl, Wild Woman

Too easy?  

hotmamabear 60F  
564 posts
4/12/2012 1:20 pm
Too easy?

A thought came to me as I walked through the grocery store today. Am I too easy? Do I give in to a mans charms without a thought to what I want or need? Sometimes I think that I do. This profound thought came to me as I walked past the flower department in the grocery. I love flowers, ALL flowers, yet I never get them unless I buy them for myself. That's what prompted the question of being too easy. Am I not good enough for a man to want to bring me flowers? Do they just figure, oh well, not like she'll say no to me?

I read posts from some of the other bloggers I follow, I listen to their stories of being with a man who brings them flowers just because and no other reason. It makes me wistful that someday, maybe, I'll be that woman who opens the door to a bouquet of flowers and a warm smile.

For about a year and a half, I was, for lack of a better phrase, a married mans mistress. I was with this man weekly, had more sex with him than he did with his wife. In all that time, he never once brought me flowers. He did buy me other gifts, toys, lingire etc. but no flowers.

Am I making too much of what I consider a small gesture? Who knows. All I do know, is that it is something that popped into my head today and made me question myself.

fogelfun39 57M
43 posts
4/12/2012 6:59 pm

 Now that's a good question. Flowers are always nice, but I'm not much of a flower guy. They never last. COupel of days, then they are dead. A momentary expression of feeling. I prefer to give things with more permanence. Something that will be around months from now to serve as a reminder.OK, maybe it's cheating, but I found something really nice that has become my Valentine tradition - these gold dipped roses. SO it's flowers, but flowers that last forever.


hotmamabear replies on 4/12/2012 7:47 pm:
I can usually make them last a week or so.....have a pretty green thumb Even if they don't last, they make me smile and feel good....is it wrong to want that?

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