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Stand Down  

rm_Mocchaflava 52F
2 posts
8/4/2009 5:27 pm
Stand Down


In the army Stand Down means it is alright relax a bit. Take a breath. When I joined the Lifestyle I never thought I'd be telling myself to stand down; but apparently this Lifestyle doesn't mean the same to most as it does to me. When I entered this lifestyle, I did not realize how big it was. The actual 'lifestyle' contains many sects that involve all kinds of fetishes. From BDSM to just plain freakin', I have enjoyed most of every moment I have been involved. From the parties to the camp-fests; I have been able to fully open up and find the person I am. I admit, that may sound cliché; but how many other environment in the world allows me to have casual conversations with friends while watching real live porn naked. If you find it, let me know because I want to check that place out. Once inside the lifestyle I saw that it was as diverse as the Vanilla World was. Hell, it became more intriguing when I bumped into my ex-in-laws...but that is for another blog. My point is I found the final piece of my world...the freak in me was no longer alone and she didn't have to hide who she was, anymore. Or so I thought.

I have always been a sexual individual. I admit I had sex at an early age, but in my defense; that is why I am so good in bed. For me, it evens out. I have never truly considered myself hot, but if told enough in one day there is some pep in my step because of it. I am a single woman who enjoys my single life tremendously. I am a freak in the bed, a couch at the bedside, and if I like the couple; I make a great fluffer. Understand this is not about tooting my own horn, but I desire to make clear that I knew who I was before I entered this lifestyle. I will continue to be myself while I am here and will not do any changing when it is all over. So what is up with the HATERS! How did something that was presumed to be such an extraordinary time turn into something so Vanilla?

Since my induction into this, as I call it, Moccha world, I have seen deception, chaos, lies, envy, jealousy and just pure ugly human behavior. So for all of those who have taken the time to read my profile understand this... there are two types of people walking this planet that I despise and they are LIARS and THIEVES. If you approach me and you are not who you are presenting yourself to be, I will not Stand Down. I will tell you in the nicest way possible that I am not pleased with your behavior and to treat me like the strangers on the street . . . simply keep walking past me. If you feel the need to befriend me to stab me in the back before you do it...simply don’t talk to me. We REALLY do not have to be friends. I am not here to be liked by everyone and not everyone is going to like me; it could be because they need medication, but who knows. My point is there is way too much Vanilla drama happening in my Moccha world brought in by people with no self-esteem, too much pride and no common sense at all. You can’t be me; I certainly don’t want to be you so simply . . . Stand Down!

A better option would be to leave the lifestyle and allow the rest of us to enjoy it like it was meant to be enjoyed.

rm_Mocchaflava 52F
1 post
8/5/2009 9:41 pm

P.s. Did I mention not everybody will agree with what I wrote, but since this is my profile...keep the negativity to yourself. That is the shit I am talking about!


rm_3leggedal 56M/49F

8/5/2009 9:05 pm

We love your blog
He being a swinger for 15 years, and she being fairly new... we can't agree more

Honesty, respect, kindness consideration

Alan and Julie


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