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*Rant* What I'm Looking For  

etalith 43M  
52 posts
6/4/2014 7:46 pm
*Rant* What I'm Looking For

I have recently been confronted by someone about what I want and what I'm looking for.

They were looking for long term relationship and were actively pushing for that in. Before you think, "Well your dating of course its nature to want to see where its going" or "Commitment Issues", we have only been conversing for less then a week. Barely 4 days.

I understand someone's desire to be in a relationship. I have enjoyed the times when I was committed to someone. And I would like to commit to someone again. Yet I'm not actively talking to every person who I'm interested in, do you want to date long term and going let's start now.

I'm a very go with the flow. I want to see what develops and what happens naturally. If we had that instant chemistry, birds, music, instant love, this wouldn't have been an issue. But seriously we haven't even met in person yet, and you are coming after me for not giving the impression I want to commit now.

My thoughts are going "How about we go on a date first to see how well our inter-personal chemistry is first?"

"Yes you are attractive and I like what I see but attraction isn't a relationship."

"Also having spent a total of less then 4 hours talking, I don't think that is enough to suddenly plan out, a long term relationship."

While I am a very sexual person. Sex Great. Sex Good. I love falling in love with someone. Suddenly realizing that you've stopped talking to anyone else, stopped looking at anyone else, because your head is so full of another person. I'm a romantic that way.

So when it comes to what I'm looking for, ultimately I would love to find someone special. Some to love. But I also a pragmatist, I realize what this site is for, and what other people are open to. I love sex. So I remain open to all the possibility. So until I find someone, I'm game for everything.

BiGuy4FunGuy 53M  
2 posts
7/1/2014 4:44 pm

 Right on, brother!


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