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Blogs > Lookin4SumFun > Miscellaneous Ramblings...

I'm just not that into you.....  

Lookin4SumFun 52F
133 posts
6/16/2009 8:36 pm
I'm just not that into you.....

So I was on my instant messenger and a guy I met on here comes and says hi. Now mind you last night I was polite enough to let him know I wasn't interested any longer. Apparently he doesn't understand that at all...

Here's the convo:
I thought it was pretty obvious what I was saying maybe I just need to say "I'm just not that into you" LOL

Last Night

Me (6/15/2009 4:41:47 PM): but i won't be playing with you though...I'm sorry I just didnt' feel that connection..I'm sorry
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:41:56 PM): what?lmao
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:41:57 PM): why not?
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:42:31 PM): ya know i wana tap that ass
Me (6/15/2009 4:43:00 PM): yes well i'm not really feeling that so....i'ms orry it won't be happening
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:43:04 PM): and we been talking for some time...
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:43:09 PM): how come?
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:43:13 PM): not used too!
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:43:18 PM): and we live close!
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:43:29 PM): and almost hang out in same bars..loll
Me (6/15/2009 4:43:31 PM): just my preference i'm afraid i'm just not interested
Me (6/15/2009 4:43:34 PM): lol
Me (6/15/2009 4:43:42 PM): that's just it ...i dont' hang at the bars any more
Me (6/15/2009 4:43:52 PM): only when i feel the need which is rare these days
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:43:54 PM): well,tryin wont hurt.you might like it too much
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:44:39 PM): so let's not be stanger
Me (6/15/2009 4:45:00 PM): later gator lol
LOSER (6/15/2009 4:45:27 PM): haha...ya know i got something big for ya..so leave other alone and get something real

Today:

LOSER (6/16/2009 7:45:39 PM): sup; )..lolol
ME (6/16/2009 7:45:43 PM): hi
LOSER (6/16/2009 7:45:58 PM): for a bit?busy with work again?: (
ME (6/16/2009 7:46:45 PM): yes and I already told you last night I'm not interested
ME (6/16/2009 7:46:48 PM): sorry
LOSER (6/16/2009 7:47:18 PM): wtfff...fuck you then..you loss.i didn't iggy ya last nite but i will now..enough!
ME (6/16/2009 7:47:30 PM): no need to be rude
ME (6/16/2009 7:47:45 PM): bye
LOSER (6/16/2009 7:47:58 PM): just remember my handle so ya never im me again!
LOSER (6/16/2009 7:47:59 PM): damm
ME (6/16/2009 7:48:10 PM): I'll just put you on my ignore list ok?
ME (6/16/2009 7:48:12 PM): how's that
LOSER (6/16/2009 7:48:19 PM): me too..have fun with losser
ME (6/16/2009 7:48:21 PM): that was so unnecessary
ME (6/16/2009 7:48:25 PM): whatever....

Now let me set the record straight. I am not desperate nor do I need to be with some Loser or converse with one who feels the need to be rude and beligerent.

Seriously...should I just have told him to F*** off instead? Does that get someone's attention?????? And seriously speak English too! UGH!

disguy9092 38M  
129 posts
7/7/2009 10:00 am

 Well you did good saying u werent interested. You clearly said it. I dont like women who keep chatting when they arent interested. They should be more blatent like you and guys should get the point too.


rainman066 48M
757 posts
6/17/2009 9:28 pm

 It amazes me how this guy can go out at all!!! He must have to beat the women off of him with a stick!!! I think he isn't used to rejection!!! Sounds like you were pretty fair to him....and thinking you talked to him the next day even after telling him you weren't interested.....he must have thought "maybe she's changed her mind." what an idiot!!!


rm_tlc5337 45M

6/16/2009 9:23 pm

 your body is rockin


mcdmda2001 65M

6/16/2009 9:18 pm

 I think it's better to do some blog-exchanges, emailing and pre-screening before getting involved with guys on messenger. It's possible to fall into harassment and stalking traps easily in real-time exchange.

Hopefully this one's out of the way and your next experience will be less stressful.
There was a fork in the road and I....


Lookin4SumFun replies on 6/16/2009 9:44 pm:
Good point. I've put him on my ignore/spam list. He won't bother me there and if he bothers me here I'll have him band from here too.

I always find one or two total losers. Thanks for the advice.

Nocturne_1977 46M
326 posts
6/16/2009 8:58 pm

 I never get how some guys think their game is so tight its infallible. Has to be stupidity bolstered by internet courage
My name is Nocturne_1977 and I approve this message.


Lookin4SumFun replies on 6/16/2009 9:45 pm:
It's amazing sometime how stupidity just runs wild LOL

But you are right I think he thought he was hot shit..and it wasn't the first time I'd said I wasn't interested. I'm not sure if guys really REALLY get that...or girls LOL

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