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FB & FWB  

marysia4u 68F
12968 posts
1/14/2016 7:50 pm
FB & FWB





Do you think the above comes with age?

You know, something like the end of a bad marriage. You might still want sex, but no commitment, so you go in search of a FB.

Then there's like the above, but wanting something a little more than to roll up have a fuck and leave, so you look for a FWB.

I have only heard older people use those terms, never the younger ones. What are your feelings on this?







love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
1/14/2016 8:03 pm

Really don't know haven't been lucky enough 2 experience FWB.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/14/2016 8:07 pm

pic gremlin

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/14/2016 8:14 pm

Feelings develop between humans later in life also.Finding someone loyal and truthful is the hardest part at this stage.Sharing a person with others
is more work than it's worth.

Using more than all the road!


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
1/14/2016 8:36 pm

I have had the pleasure of having both. I like FWB because the sex was secondary to having a friend.

Be safe, relax and just have fun!


AmorphousAmor 64M
3574 posts
1/14/2016 8:45 pm

Maybe we just need that connection now and then... Label it any way you want


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/14/2016 8:46 pm

Do you think the above comes with age? Fb/Fwb? .... Yes and no. "No", because it doesn't always occur to someone to have this situation with someone. "Yes", because after hitting puberty, and getting some experience, a fuckbuddy or having friends [with the benefit of sex] works for them.

You know, something like the end of a bad marriage. You might still want sex, but no commitment, so you go in search of a FB. .... Very good idea, too. Suggest more than one fuckbuddy.

Then there's like the above, but wanting something a little more than to roll up have a fuck and leave, so you look for a FWB. .... You can do that too. Also have more than one. The reason being, is that if, or when, your fwb starts getting serious with someone, they will stop having sex with you.

I have only heard older people use those terms, never the younger ones. .... Younger people are a lot less uptight about sex, and usually just refer to these things as "Hooking up".

What are your feelings on this? .... I wouldn't be friends with women without the benefit of sex, within reason of course.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:30 pm

    Quoting love2pleasu13:
    Really don't know haven't been lucky enough 2 experience FWB.
Thanks for popping in and leaving a comment.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. If that's what you are looking for.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for popping in and leaving a comment.

Good for you. Hope it continues, enjoy the fun.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:32 pm

Just don't get it wet or feed it after midnight.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:34 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks for popping in and leaving a comment.

You are one of the lucky ones. I shall keep my fingers crossed that it does turn into more.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:36 pm

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    Feelings develop between humans later in life also.Finding someone loyal and truthful is the hardest part at this stage.Sharing a person with others
    is more work than it's worth.
I do not like to share. Maybe that's why I'm having trouble finding someone.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:39 pm

    Quoting coptrainer56:
    I have had the pleasure of having both. I like FWB because the sex was secondary to having a friend.
Thanks for popping in and leaving a comment.

You can never have too many friends, and if there's sex as well, then it's even better.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:44 pm

    Quoting AmorphousAmor:
    Maybe we just need that connection now and then... Label it any way you want
Thanks for popping in and leaving a comment.

Some people like to know what's acceptable and wanted from the other person, so it's easier to put a label on it.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/14/2016 11:50 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Do you think the above comes with age? Fb/Fwb? .... Yes and no. "No", because it doesn't always occur to someone to have this situation with someone. "Yes", because after hitting puberty, and getting some experience, a fuckbuddy or having friends [with the benefit of sex] works for them.

    You know, something like the end of a bad marriage. You might still want sex, but no commitment, so you go in search of a FB. .... Very good idea, too. Suggest more than one fuckbuddy.

    Then there's like the above, but wanting something a little more than to roll up have a fuck and leave, so you look for a FWB. .... You can do that too. Also have more than one. The reason being, is that if, or when, your fwb starts getting serious with someone, they will stop having sex with you.

    I have only heard older people use those terms, never the younger ones. .... Younger people are a lot less uptight about sex, and usually just refer to these things as "Hooking up".

    What are your feelings on this? .... I wouldn't be friends with women without the benefit of sex, within reason of course.
I would never suggest to anyone to have more than one sexual partner. It is their choice if they wish to do so.

I'm glad you added............within reason, otherwise you could be missing out on some wonderful friendships.


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
1/15/2016 2:19 am

I think FWB and I think when younger we clearly seek different things or label them differently

Even older, either long term single or after leaving a marriage, I think we realise simpler pleasures mean more to us, and that includes genuine peace and happiness and connection which deep down most of us crave still


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/15/2016 2:25 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    I would never suggest to anyone to have more than one sexual partner. It is their choice if they wish to do so.

    I'm glad you added............within reason, otherwise you could be missing out on some wonderful friendships.


You should always, always suggest to anyone looking for "Fwb" situation, that they find more than one. This situation is not a "Sexual partner" situation. It's someone you have sex with when you need it, and meanwhile, they can be dating [having sex with other people]. A "Fwb" situation is NOT exclusive. The entire point of having more than one Fwb, is because one Fwb will not always be available.

If you don't understand this concept, then you should not do it.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/15/2016 2:27 am

    Quoting marysia4u:
    I do not like to share. Maybe that's why I'm having trouble finding someone.


Then you should not be looking for FB or Fwb, because this won't work for you, and you will only end up pissing them off for being possessive.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
1/15/2016 3:09 am

    Quoting  :

A "Girlfriend" implies commitment. A "Fwb" does not.


danceswithtrees 64M
2425 posts
1/15/2016 4:36 am

interesting thought.

i haven't heard anyone say groovy or far out for a long time...perhaps it is an age thing.


sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
1/15/2016 9:20 am

I've had both in the past....I'm not interested in either now as I understand my own needs better. I find sex is much better, more satisfying if there is commitment and emotion there. You don't find that with an FB or FWB.

BTW your images have gone AWOL.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/15/2016 2:53 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    You should always, always suggest to anyone looking for "Fwb" situation, that they find more than one. This situation is not a "Sexual partner" situation. It's someone you have sex with when you need it, and meanwhile, they can be dating [having sex with other people]. A "Fwb" situation is NOT exclusive. The entire point of having more than one Fwb, is because one Fwb will not always be available.

    If you don't understand this concept, then you should not do it.
I do understand the concept.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/15/2016 2:56 pm

    Quoting  :

Easier when introducing them as a girlfriend than FWB.

When I'm in a serious relationship, I call them my partner, as I feel boyfriend sounds a bit odd at my age.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/15/2016 2:57 pm

    Quoting  :

I would prefer to be in a long term relationship with just one person.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/15/2016 3:00 pm

    Quoting danceswithtrees:
    interesting thought.

    i haven't heard anyone say groovy or far out for a long time...perhaps it is an age thing.
Have heard far out, and a couple of my cousins in England still use fab which makes me laugh.

Better than the young ones using..................... Like all the time. Drives me crazy. Every 2nd word is like.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
1/15/2016 3:03 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    I've had both in the past....I'm not interested in either now as I understand my own needs better. I find sex is much better, more satisfying if there is commitment and emotion there. You don't find that with an FB or FWB.

    BTW your images have gone AWOL.

I too have had both, but would really like to find someone who is looking for a LTR one on one, but it seems they are all looking for the other two.

No image used this time, guess I used the
too many times.


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