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Email etiquette (Yet another example)  

KY_nice_guy 52M  
53 posts
6/3/2014 9:03 pm
Email etiquette (Yet another example)


So recently I had another example of how I think messages on this site should be treated when you can.

So a bit of history.
As we all do I receive my share of flirts and "Hot Lists" on a daily basis and I do check them out everyday as I love to flirt and be flirted with.
Well....I receive a flirt from this guy and see that he is somewhat local to me. As I'm not interested in flirting with men I smiled and went on with my usual VisionPersonals.com tasks.

So a day or two later I receive a message from said "Gentleman"

And with his permission here is the first part of the conversation that followed:

Gentleman
hey bud. great pics.

Me
Thank you.

Gentleman
hope you don't mind chatting with a dude.

Me
I don't mind talking with anyone. I don't discriminate.
Why should anyone be offended by a compliment?

Gentleman
I agree. I just joined and this site seems pretty ok. You have good luck on here? Seems like a good place to find a "buddy".

Me
For the most part, you get what you give. If you show someone respect you will usually get it in return. The big thing is everyone is here for their own reasons. I'm sure you will run into some "crazies" or scams but there pretty easy to weed out of the genuine people. I've met allot of great friends here and learned allot from some of the strangest places but as I'm fairly particular in what I'm looking for it has taken some time to find it. Now that I have I'm mostly here to blog and continue to talk with like minded people.

Gentleman
That's good advice. I'm trying to open myself up for a more fun sex life -- not as easy as it sounds. I just started reading your blog. Nice storytelling and have to admit it got me hard as hell. I'm sure you get that a lot. I'm "Gentleman" -- just a hardworking low-key guy.

Me
Hello "Gentleman", thanks again for yet another compliment.

Gentleman
you're welcome. gonna rub one out now to one of your hot stories. picturing you in there helps a lot.

Me
LOL Well please be sure to leave a comment as they help to promote the blog.
Happy rubbing.


The conversation went on from there and was polite and filled with chuckles all the way through.

My point is:
Weather you want to have sex with someone or not being polite and giving someone the common courtesy they deserve can pay off much more than being rude or simply ignoring them when a lot of the times they just want to talk.

After the week I've had I can use all the good people I can get.

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
6/3/2014 9:55 pm

I am always answering email on here even if it doesn't have anything to do with me.. Always willing to help someone out.. male or female hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


KY_nice_guy replies on 6/4/2014 3:52 am:
You have always been "sweet" with me V.
Even when a feeble attempt at humor would miss it's mark.

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