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Blogs > reallyready46 > Ramblings of a middle aged man

Part 2 Of where have all the good Men gone?  

reallyready46 64M
531 posts
3/21/2011 11:20 pm
Part 2 Of where have all the good Men gone?

In this part I would like to talk about the Womanizing of society. What I mean is how much woman are and have changed the work place.

First I think we need to look at the differences between Men and Women. I am not looking at the obivous physical differences. I think no one can argue that in general Men are stronger, think more along logical lines. Women are more nuturing and usally smaller. Nothing wroung with this. There are jobs that men do better in, jobs women excell in and jobs that both can do. When you lower the bar to allow people into certain jobs, then you send a message. The message is why try hard when you can get by with less effort?

We also have tilted the field to where in many places, feelings count for more than what actually happens. For example, where I work has a policy that even if you feel like you are harrased then you are harrased! Before you say nuts, think back to what the Therapist said to me, woman are about feelings. Guess who lined up first to say they felt wrounged? I am not for harrasment in the work place. I do not support it at all. It is what is passing in some cases as harrasment. We are almost to the point of being told that feelings are more important than our job.

By tilting this field toward women like behavior we are helping to create woman like behavior. Stop for a moment and think about qualites that women look for in men. For the most part they are the very things that are being driven out by Women!

Part three how the legal system has contributed to this.

reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
4/3/2011 1:14 am

 Sorry my reply has been delayed, work has been very busy. You make many good points, let me see if I can address some of them. First off I do think that a few women have hijaked feminism. I just think that alot of women have not cared or turned a blind eye to what was going on. It gave them some benefit and they let it go on. Thbnhe end result is this wreck we have today.

Since I was bullied and beaten at school, I do empathize with anyone that suffers harrasement. It is wroung to who ever. But my point is that when you allow people to be threatened by a company over someones FEELINGS, that is wroung! When people threaten some one those are not feelings, when somene is touched in an unapproate way thats not just feelings, I hope you see what I am saying.

I hope you will finish reading this, give me a few days. I do plan to tie this all together. Men and women do bring alot to the table, together. I fear that we have thrown away a generation of young males, with no concern or thought as to the actions of the few.


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