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Carry on  

dreamon78 63M  
92 posts
5/3/2013 9:06 am
Carry on

Carry on

A couple months ago I downloaded the album some nights by fun and found myself captivated by the entire album. A website review indicated that the album had some very dark passages and yet was incredibly uplifting and I was totally drawn to that contrast. I actually loved the whole album but I was particularly drawn to the message in the song “carry on”.

It goes:

If you're lost and alone
Or you're sinking like a stone
Carry on
May your past be the sound
Of your feet upon the ground
Carry on

My head is on fire
But my legs are fine
Cause after all they are mine
Lay your clothes down on the floor
Close the door
Hold the phone
Show me how
No one's ever gonna stop us now

Cause we are
We are shining stars
We are invincible
We are who we are
On our darkest day
When we're miles away
So we'll come
We will find our way home

It is a simple message to just keep moving and don’t be a prisoner of your past. The line “May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground” really resonates with me. I and people close to me have too often been unable to free themselves from things in their past. That passage is a great reminder that your past is always behind you as long as you’re moving forward.

The passage “My head is on fire, but my legs are fine, cause after all they are mine” is such a simple metaphor but it is a reminder that so many of the things that hold us back exist only in this very small space between our ears. People or circumstances from our past may dominate our thoughts and feelings but they don’t own our ability to move forward.

I have only included a portion of the lyrics but the songs starts with two people lost in despair and builds as they draw strength in each other to move forward.

I am a genuinely positive person but it is not because I have not faced challenges or have overcome difficulties. But I have found my greatest joy in supporting and inspiring others. It isn’t always helping them through difficult situations; at times it is only letting them know you see more in them than they see in themselves. Sometimes all it takes to be a shining star is to have someone that find in you, the things that make you sparkle.


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dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
7/1/2013 7:45 pm

    Quoting cutecpl692010:
    This is the most beautiful and uplifting post I have seen today. Thank you for sharing this with us
Thank you so much for the very sweet comment and for visiting my blog.

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dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
6/10/2013 5:55 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you so much for the very sweet comments. It is very touching that you can find some comfort in my words. Thank you also for joining my watch list. It is a great honor to have one of the sites most popular bloggers watch my page.

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KellyMissBHaven 55F
3388 posts
5/26/2013 12:29 am

it is interesting I never thought of my friend as the lucky one, I thought it was a privilege to be able to be there for him.


This statement further proves your strength of character and solidifies the fact that your friend is blessed to have you in his life.

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dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
5/25/2013 6:23 pm

    Quoting KellyMissBHaven:
    When I first heard this song a while back, I immediately had to download it. It conveys a great message. It's hard to move beyond things that have happened in one's past. It is a conscious decision to either let your past control you or to learn from it and move on. I am that much stronger for choosing to move on several times in my life. It sounds like your advice truly helped your friend. He's lucky to have you in his life.
Kel, thank you so much for viisiting my blog and leaving such an insightful and sweet comment. It is such a great honor to have one of the sites most popular bloggers and a long time favorite of mine visit my page.

it is interesting I never thought of my friend as the lucky one, I thought it was a privilege to be able to be there for him.

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KellyMissBHaven 55F
3388 posts
5/25/2013 10:01 am

When I first heard this song a while back, I immediately had to download it. It conveys a great message. It's hard to move beyond things that have happened in one's past. It is a conscious decision to either let your past control you or to learn from it and move on. I am that much stronger for choosing to move on several times in my life. It sounds like your advice truly helped your friend. He's lucky to have you in his life.

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dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
5/20/2013 6:15 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for the sweet comment C. The post was inspired by a very good friend that was a victim of a crime and it devevastated him. I asked him if he was going to allow this to ruin his life forever and he said no. I said "good, then it isn't a matter of if you'll get over this, only when". My advice to him was to pick a day some time in the future and when that day arrived he was going to move on. The advice was kinda silly but it reinforced his awareness that moving forward was under his control. When that day arrived two weeks later, he changed, he was no where near totally past it, but it no longer controlled him or defined him and the healing could finally take place.

Thanks so much for the sweet comments on the new pic.

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dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
5/5/2013 5:42 pm

WOW... It can't begin to tell you how much it means to get such a sweet compliment from a woman that I have come to admire so much as a dedicated follower of your blog. You truly are a shining star.

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dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
5/3/2013 11:42 pm

    Quoting playful64more:
    I need more people like you in my life. Seems there is a great shortage of those people with all that you possess.

    You "get it" and I love that about you. I found this song and played it several times. It touched me too. Music will always be a part of me. I wish I could find someone who understands that and "gets it" as well.

    By the way, like your new pic.
I am so happy you enjoyed the song. There is an acoustic version on you tube that is also amazing. I also find the final track "stars" incredibly uplifting.

Thanks so much for the very sweet comments.

Life's a journey not a destination

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dreamon78 63M  
1199 posts
5/3/2013 11:34 pm

    Quoting Msboobsy:
    Very good post and good advice. Sometimes not so easy to follow but I like the way you put it.
Thank you so much for the comments. Believe me, I totally understand that the gravity of pain from the past can seem impossible to escape. I had a very good friend victimized by a significant betrayal by someone he trusted and he was crushed. i finally made him pick a day as many days in the future as he wanted and when that day arrived he would no longer be her victim. It seemed silly but it worked.

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playful64more 60F
1425 posts
5/3/2013 8:26 pm

I need more people like you in my life. Seems there is a great shortage of those people with all that you possess.

You "get it" and I love that about you. I found this song and played it several times. It touched me too. Music will always be a part of me. I wish I could find someone who understands that and "gets it" as well.

By the way, like your new pic.

I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)


Msboobsy 70F
5972 posts
5/3/2013 11:12 am

Very good post and good advice. Sometimes not so easy to follow but I like the way you put it.


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