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DAMN DAN...YOU BROKE THE DAM!  

49plus20 69M
555 posts
3/8/2014 10:55 pm
DAMN DAN...YOU BROKE THE DAM!


7:00 AM. Saturday morning...rush through a quick shower, grab my coffee, hop in the car.
Start the car turn on the radio and no.. No news today, tired of it all, no drama today, just some quiet music to get me to work....
They call the station "The Bridge"
70's Folk Rock

First song out of the driveway is Dan Fogelburg's "The Leader of The Band"
One block later the damn broke...
The emotions took over me and I had to pull over.
Tears turned to sobs as I let it all out.

I have been thinking of my father a lot recently.
Last week marked the 50th year anniversary that my family moved to this country.
What love and dedication makes a man pick up his family (Mom, Dad, and 5 ) and move them across the world in search of a better life?
What courage!
What BALLS!

The words to the song hit me like a brick
And the feelings overwhelmed me
There was nothing to do but let the dam
come tumbling down

An only alone and wild
A cabinet maker's
His hands were meant for different work
And his heart was known to none
He left his home and went his lone
And solitary way
And he gave to me
A gift I know I never can repay

A quiet man of music
Denied a simpler fate
He tried to be a soldier once
But his music wouldn't wait
He earned his love through discipline
A thundering, velvet hand
His gentle means of sculpting souls
Took me years to understand

The leader of the band is tired
And his eyes are growing old
But his blood runs through my instrument
And his song is in my soul
My life has been a poor attempt
To imitate the man
I'm just a living legacy
To the leader of the band

My brothers' lives were different
For they heard another call
One went to Chicago
And the other to St. Paul
And I'm in Colorado
When I'm not in some hotel
Living out this life I've chose
And come to know so well

I thank you for the music
And your stories of the road
I thank you for the freedom
When it came my time to go
I thank you for the kindness
And the times when you got tough
And, papa, I don't think
I said, "I love you" near enough

The leader of the band is tired
And his eyes are growing old
But his blood runs through my instrument
And his song is in my soul
My life has been a poor attempt
To imitate the man
I'm just a living legacy
To the leader of the band
I am the living legacy
To the leader of the band

My dad's art was not Music. His gift was anything mechanical.
Other than that, the lyrics could have been written by me

The leader of my band is tired
and his eyes are growing old
But his blood runs through my efforts
and his ethics are in my soul

My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man
I am just a living legacy
To the leader of the band

I love you papy

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
3/9/2014 10:33 am

Good to see you again my dear friend! hugs kisses V ty for sharing about your Dad. They are very special in each of our lives..

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


MyNameIsKay 62F  
11887 posts
3/9/2014 2:00 pm

That was very sweet E. Sometimes the tears come and you can't control them...and it's okay!

Swim...Bike...Done


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
3/9/2014 2:42 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Good to see you again my dear friend! hugs kisses V ty for sharing about your Dad. They are very special in each of our lives..
It feels good to be back
He is a special man
Ii have always liked the song but had never really heard the words the way I did yesterday


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
3/9/2014 2:48 pm

    Quoting  :

My dad is still alive but suffers from Alzheimers (sp?)
It is an awful decease and in many ways I am already mourning him
I am very lucky that he still recognizes me
Thank you for your response


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
3/9/2014 2:51 pm

    Quoting MyNameIsKay:
    That was very sweet E. Sometimes the tears come and you can't control them...and it's okay!
Thank you

Does mot happen often, but when it does the tears seem to cleanse my soul


stilwantmore 78F
11892 posts
3/12/2014 12:13 am

Thanks for sharing.


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
3/12/2014 6:58 am

You are welcome


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
3/14/2014 2:31 am

That song always chokes me up. The Bridge is the third preset in my car.
Hugs and thanks for sharing your feelings about your dad.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
3/15/2014 8:48 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    That song always chokes me up. The Bridge is the third preset in my car.
    Hugs and thanks for sharing your feelings about your dad.
It is a very good station.
The older I get the more like him I become


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
3/15/2014 8:51 am

    Quoting canyaz:
    That song always chokes me up. The Bridge is the third preset in my car.
    Hugs and thanks for sharing your feelings about your dad.
You are welcome.
Not been blogging as much latelly but sometimes I have to put the feelings down on paper.


LadyLuck2 67F  
9091 posts
3/16/2014 12:47 am

I've been thinking about my dad a lot lately too. He died 6 years ago this month so it's always a time of remembrance.

Never ignore those who care for you
you will have lost diamonds
while you were collecting stones


49plus20 69M
1518 posts
3/16/2014 4:20 pm

    Quoting LadyLuck2:
    I've been thinking about my dad a lot lately too. He died 6 years ago this month so it's always a time of remembrance.
Mine still lives, but a lot has changed. I miss sharing my success with him and having him around when I need to share my failures.

Go to hardheadruben2004 on you tube and watch Ruben finally beat his nemesis
CAGWA tribe tournament


stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
5/1/2014 11:09 am

You're a very intelligent and interesting person, 49 plus20...I'm so happy to find you still on this site and healthy. I hope your son is also well and healthy.

I was never much enraptured by my own father or mother, but as I get older than the bricks in most buildings, I realize I am now my father, even as much as I like or dislike that fact. Respect and friendship, david


49plus20 replies on 5/2/2014 8:23 pm:
Good to see you again!
Hope you have a great week end

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