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To share apart???  

LibraLeo79 61F
40 posts
11/10/2008 1:11 pm
To share apart???

After reading Cherry’s blog about “loving & sharing”, another question has come up for me . I have known or heard a few couples have “played” separately but have ended up breaking up.

Should a couple play separate from each other and still be in & continue being in love with your spouse/partner?

Don't get me wrong though Mr. Leo and I don't play separately; that is basically our one & only rule. We just feel that it could easily enter into dangerous territory but would love to hear your thoughts!

Hrmestud 60M
6047 posts
11/10/2008 4:50 pm

 I've seen the two of you together hun. I've seen the looks you have shared with each other.You are both the picture of love and with a love that strong if you should decide to play separately the both of you will be in each others arms a thousand times over again and again well after the separate play.


MrMs_Mystify 47M/40F

11/10/2008 6:04 pm

 Everything I said in cherry's blog applies here.

However, the situation with the Ms and are is not that typical (or at least, not that I know of)

She has practically NO sex drive to speak of. Plus, she was raised when it comes to sex, kinky is bad.

Me, on the other hand, I have a very HIGH sex drive, and the kinkier the better.

There are things that I want to do and experience that she and I both acknowledge that she can not give me.

It also helps that I can easily tell the difference between sex and love, and I am loyal to a fault.

I encourage the Ms to go out and play. Live life and experience what the world has to offer. As long as she is careful, smart, and at the end of the day still loves me, I don't care what she does.

I want to say I expect the same in return, but I don't. I just appreciate it. I will NEVER take it for granted.
[You]>> What do you want?
[MrMs_Mystify]>> Please, make us your bitch!


tubedinn 63M
93 posts
11/11/2008 5:30 am

 I can't touch a subject like that but maybe you should ask a pro? If you're both happy the way it is now why mess with it?


LibraLeo79 61F
20 posts
11/11/2008 6:13 pm

 I think some may have misread this ..we never play alone...more curious on what others think about the subject and if it works for them or not,just that we have seen some make it work,but seen more end relationships


Robthrob65 58M
47 posts
12/6/2008 10:06 am

 Speaking from some experience...the underlying foundation for the Mrs' and I is STRENGTH, rock solid foundation - then we play. We are strong to talk about what we want and what we are looking for with others. This is not an undertaking if your relationship is not rock solid. Both must be open with one another.

Let the playing begin...


lasbx9 74M
35 posts
6/26/2009 8:34 pm

 I think playing separatly is best.


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