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Father, Dad, or what?  

GerK321Cum 66M
1896 posts
6/16/2013 3:34 am
Father, Dad, or what?


Happy Father's Day

For many today will be a day to celebrate, for others there will be memories of times past and for some there will be a mixture of emotions on this day that we have come to call "Father's Day".

I am sure that the presents bottles of "Old Spice", "Brylcreem" or shaving foam will be gratefully appreciated. Or maybe it will be a new set of spanners, screw drivers, paint brushes, garden tools or lawn Weed 'n' Feed that will keep him occupied for ages.

Seriously though (ooops was it you who bought the "Old Spice"...lol) the most important thing about today is not the gifts and presents or the cards, it is the appreciation.

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And I know that many have had to perform the role of both parents in this crazy world and others do not get to see their parents or as often as they might wish and some have seen their parents passing - so today is filled with so many different emotions it's hard to encompass everyone with one word, one feeling or on expression.

Even the meaning and the role of fatherhood is changing in some neck of the woods, but, no matter what today means to you, may it bring you joy and happiness and appreciation of good times past and anticipation for future happiness - Happy Father's Day to everyone!






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GerK321Cum 66M
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6/17/2013 10:59 am

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I can appreciate the distance and time issue when one is not living close to their folks, but it is nice to remember once a year and set a day aside to celebrate or have a memory there. I do think that being a parent, father or mother, comes naturally once one gives it the opportunity and follows ones instinct and not always convention, many people make great parents without the inside or guidance of their own - but it's just a time to think maybe both for fathers and their offspring.

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GerK321Cum 66M
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6/17/2013 10:56 am

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    Happy Father's Day my friend....your Dad sounds amazing and I am sure you share many of his qualities. I hope your children are spoiling you today.

    My Dad is 22 years dead next month.....and I still miss him...for many years he was both Father and Mother to me.

Steak and mash and fried peppers and a coffee - at least they did not make the effort to bring me coffee too early....lol!

It is the strange thing about father's day (and mother's day) is that they are tinged with sadness and memories, but at least there are memories of those departed, I am lucky to have mine still around, but then it's more complex than that, but wrote about it elsewhere.

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GerK321Cum 66M
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6/17/2013 10:53 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Happy Father's Day to you Gerk. Sure does make your parents special and wonderful!

    Father's Day is a celebration honoring fathers and celebrating fatherhood, paternal bonds, and the influence of fathers in society. Many countries celebrate it on the third Sunday of June, but it is also celebrated widely on other days.

    Many Canadians observe Father’s Day on the third Sunday of June. It is a day for people to show their appreciation for fathers and father figures. Father figures may include stepfathers, fathers-in-law, guardians (eg. foster parents), and family friends.
Thank you, I had a great day relaxing although I had some work to do later on, but I get that time back.

I don't remember father's day growing up, but then I don't remember mother's day, but am sure that we did something.

Mother's day is celebrated at different times, but at least we both celebrate father's day at the same time, which is less confusing.

Although sometimes I think about dysfunctional families and parents who have separated and wonder if we should just have a "parents" day as many have taken on both roles... but then the kids would be looking for a "children's day" but I tell mine that it is Children's day 363 days a year....lol!

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GerK321Cum 66M
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6/17/2013 10:46 am

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thanks for the good wishes, I had a relaxing day, my girls cooked and I sat back beign lazy...lol.

I think my dad got the balance right, so he deserves much of the credit. I just hope my own kids will learn the importance of being a parent!

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sexysixties2 106F
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6/16/2013 8:07 am

Happy Father's Day my friend....your Dad sounds amazing and I am sure you share many of his qualities. I hope your children are spoiling you today.

My Dad is 22 years dead next month.....and I still miss him...for many years he was both Father and Mother to me.


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


sweet_VM 65F
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6/16/2013 7:32 am

Happy Father's Day to you Gerk. Sure does make your parents special and wonderful!

Father's Day is a celebration honoring fathers and celebrating fatherhood, paternal bonds, and the influence of fathers in society. Many countries celebrate it on the third Sunday of June, but it is also celebrated widely on other days.

Many Canadians observe Father’s Day on the third Sunday of June. It is a day for people to show their appreciation for fathers and father figures. Father figures may include stepfathers, fathers-in-law, guardians (eg. foster parents), and family friends.

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GerK321Cum 66M
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6/16/2013 3:55 am

My own father is 92 this year and talking to him recently, we were chatting about the things we did like football games, watching parades, visiting museums and mountain climbing and having picnics, going for walks in the local parks, building campfires, building sand castles, playing on the beach, fishing, cooking beans and bacon, and just about anything a dad can think of...

... and I commented on how much he seemed so enjoy something (can't remember what but that is immaterial), and looking at me with that eye and smile he said "You think I did!" and laughing he explained that he wanted to give us the best experiences so we could see the world and choose the paths and things that interested us, not him.

I think that that is what makes a parent wonderful!



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