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Blogs > hornyguyMN > Inside my head

And I'm an asshole.  

hornyguyMN 43M
2356 posts
11/12/2016 4:07 pm
And I'm an asshole.

Yep that's right me good ol' HG, former contender for BustyBettyBoops sweetest blogger award, is an asshole.

Let me explain. I've actually been dating someone for the past 2 plus months. Long term readers will know this is a heck of a feet for me. Wednesday night we had sex for the first time. All's good so far right. Well the problem is tat Thursday I didn't contact her ... I know I'm an asshat. I meant to, but the night got away from me and I never did. Then I messaged her before my second job on Friday.

On my break I got some messages from her telling me she was "annoyed" that I didn't contact her Thursday. I sent her a very long apology and another one this morning. Her and I have been going back and forth of a few hours now. Apparently there were more issues then I knew about. This just kinda set her off. I guess I haven't been sending out the "I'm into you vibes" and she's confused by it. So I explain to her how I show my interest. And on and on we went.

So we just ended the conversation for what I assume will be the night. She's at work now and I have to get ready to head to my aunts. I'm still unsure how we stand. It might be over.

If something ends I understand that. But I'm not typically an asshole, at least I don't think I am. So to have the one (unintentional) asshole move I made be the catalyst. I don't even know how to express how bad that makes me feel. And now not knowing where we stand.

Well that's my vent. I really suck at this dating thing. Hope you all are having a better weekend then I am.

itzchic824 37F
2811 posts
11/13/2016 7:34 pm

 yeah.. I mean I could understand if she messaged you the next day and you didn't respond but just her sitting waiting for you to message first is kinda childish. seriously...
I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!


hornyguyMN replies on 11/15/2016 6:55 pm:
I agree that there is a double standard there. But I cannot control her actions. Just mine.

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