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Blogs > hornyguyMN > Inside my head

Wrong kind of anniversaries  

hornyguyMN 43M
2355 posts
4/30/2013 7:33 pm
Wrong kind of anniversaries

You'll have to forgive me in this post. I have a couple of the wrong type of anniversaries around this time of year and had WAY too much time alone this weekend to think about them. Which made my introversion kick in when I was around someone else, it's a nasty cycle.

Anyways, the one that has already passed is my sexaversary. Meaning that I haven't had sex with anyone other then my hand in a year. Which is also part of the reason that things are getting too me so much, I'm freaking horny with no real outlet (masturbation can only do so much and gets old after awhile and eventually makes it worse because what your really craving is the intimacy).

However this is hardly the longest I've gone without sex. I once had a nearly 8 year dry spell, though I just round it down to seven years. I actually averaged out how many days there are between sexual encounters for me (this is not including make out sessions or one sided oral only days, so I didn't count the times I got a blow job or went down on a woman and that was the end of it for the day or none sexual kink activities such as flogging).

I average 370.85 days between sexual encounters. Too bad Lulu isn't around anymore as much as she hates math the stats would be her thing. That averages is also lowered because I factored in that kitty and I once had sex 3 times in under 24 hours so I broke all of those into decimals. Counting those as one since they were only a few hours apart jumps it up to over 490 days.

The other one I wont talk much about. But in one week from tomorrow (May 1st ) marks the one year point since kittie broke up with me out of the blue. It is bringing up old insecurities that I thought I had sent packing when I started dating again.

Sorry I know this has been a downer post. I have an idea for my next post that will hopefully be more thought provoking if nothing else.

So if your up for sharing, what is the longest you've ever gone without sex? What is the most sex you've had in the shortest amount of time?

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
4/30/2013 8:15 pm

 I don't recall for sure, but I had a long dry spell during my late 20's...it might have been a couple years.


hornyguyMN replies on 5/1/2013 7:55 am:
A couple of years is not fun that's for sure.

demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
5/3/2013 7:08 pm

 I've never kept track. Though I used to say my average was 2 years single between relationships. And There was a period of about 5 years when I was being good. Partially religious reasons, partially I was in love with guys living overseas.

However, in the past 6 years... I think the longest I've gone is 3 months, and that because my bf & I broke up & he was seeing somebody else... then we became lovers again. And 3 months while I was engaged to somebody till he flaked... then I became lovers with my ex again.

Right now... I'm averaging between once a week and once a month, depending on what's happening in life. I WANT 3 - 7 times a week lol. But partially it's libido, partially emotional.


hornyguyMN replies on 5/3/2013 11:11 pm:
I think most of us would love 3-7 times a week, myself included. But right now I would settle for once a week, maybe even once a month.

demonicsexkitten 49F
10694 posts
5/3/2013 7:10 pm

 Most sex in shortest amount of time??? I've absolutely no idea.


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