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Blogs > hornyguyMN > Inside my head

Someone needs a spanking  

hornyguyMN 43M
2355 posts
1/22/2011 12:21 pm
Someone needs a spanking


I've been wondering about this for a while now but what finally pushed me over the edge to post about it was a post from LadyUnlaced. So for the last couple of days I've been thinking about spankings and hair pulling during sex/foreplay.

Now I have done some light hair pulling, usually to tip the ladies head back should I want to nibble on her neck. But I've never grabbed a handful while the bump and grind was going on. I don't grab and yank, but rather grab and give a gentle tug, just enough to give a little pull and let her know I would like her head thrown back.

As for the spanking part of this post. Some of you know that I have an interest in BDSM while I've never had the chance to explore those interests outside of the cyber arena, it's something I would like to try curtain aspects of just the same. One of those is spanking. So obviously it isn't something I've never done.

I've seen spanking range from some redness to cuts in the woman's rump. Personally I think the ladies backside is (much like the breasts) much too pretty a thing to leave more then some redness or and accidental, bruise on. So while I'm not opposed to some spanking I can't see myself doing more then reddening the behind. Probably bare handed, rather then using any kind of paddle. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't give a paddle a go.

Alrighty I think I'm done babbling for now. So now it's your turn. Ladies do you like having your hair pulled during foreplay/sex? Do you like a gentle tug, or something a little harder? Would you like a guy to grab a handful while the two of you are getting in on in say doggy style? Do you liked to be spanked before/during sex? Would you prefer bare handed or the use of some type of paddle? Do you like your partner to give your rear a good smack during the ol' bump and grind? A curious mind wants to know.

Hey I'm proud of myself I got through a whole post on spanking and didn't use the word ass until now.

LadyUnlaced 49F
34177 posts
1/22/2011 5:31 pm

 I like to be smacked and have my hair pulled on occasion. I am a big fan of variety. I wouldn't want to do BDSM stuff all the time but once in awhile, it's fun
Free your mind. Open your heart. Move a mountain. An Open Book...

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hornyguyMN replies on 1/23/2011 1:34 am:
Variety is the spice of life.

AudioFilly 58F  
1897 posts
1/22/2011 7:30 pm

 I'm wanting to respond here, but what I'm wanting to say is growing in my mind. So I'm thinking my response is just turning into a blog post all it's own.

So, short answers: Yes I like to have my hair pulled. Sometimes just a gentle winding of the hand in my hair. Sometimes something more aggressive, pulling my head back for a deeper kiss. Sometimes aggressively while doggie style.

I've never had a full spanking. But a good smack once in a while during is an interesting addition. It sometimes makes me cum harder & other times sets me off into a gail of giggles. Seems to depend on who is administering the slap & how well they pull off the air of authority with it. (Aren't you glad I said short answer?)


hornyguyMN replies on 1/23/2011 1:42 am:
Well if this does turn into a post of it's own I'll be interested in reading the full answer as well.

PurplePeach72 51F
9194 posts
1/24/2011 4:30 am

 I'm not into the BDSM thing but do enjoy hair pulling of almost any variety and having my ass smacked during sex or foreplay with a hand is a turn on. I also like to be bitten so maybe I'm just strange that way or it's my vampire fixation...lol...No paddles or instruments for me and I don't want a red sore ass from the spanking. I've had a few partners who liked to be spanked and frankly I like doling out a good ass spanking more than I like getting them.
Kisses,
LeeAnn
Kisses,
LA


hornyguyMN replies on 1/24/2011 8:34 am:
I'd never try to give an actual spanking to anyone that wasn't into it. Especially if they would prefer to give one like me. If we both want to give the getter wouldn't be having much fun. Although I would take full advantage of that vampire fixation of your. Hmmm if I remember right from your post one of your spots was the back of the neck, I think I could find a way or two to get to that, even before we were alone.

Oh there you go getting me fantasizing and off topic again LeeAnn.

rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
1/24/2011 11:04 am

 you should know my answer, a good spanking can be very erotic and fun. I like mine red a a few welts that disappear by the end of the night can be good as well.
I enjoy many levels of hair pulling from the loving tug to the fuck me slut hair pulling !
I like my honeypot to be spanked sometimes too
keep in mind the when is as important as the how hard and such I do not like spanking right off.. spankings of any kind. I want it further into my foreplay and like it rougher as my hunger increases.
rarely I prefer it first and diving right into it all
If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


hornyguyMN replies on 1/24/2011 11:14 am:
Oh of course I would jump right into it. Just like anything you have to build up to it.

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