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Meeting up
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Meeting up I tried to post this last night but it turns out the darn thing didn't post, grrrrrrrr. So here we go again. Before anyone jumps to any conclusions no the title doesn't mean I have a date (unfortunately). But with the next best thing (Vegas) quickly approaching I've been wondering what everyone's rules are for their first meeting with someone? Be it from here or a more traditional dating site. To date I have never (as far as I know) met anyone else in person that is on this site. But I have from a traditional dating site. I don't think that my rules for meeting someone from there or here would be any different. I think the first meeting should be somewhere public, Be it a restaurant, museum, park or mall. Some place where we can have time to talk. I don't feel sex should be expected. Now if everything falls into place and we do decide to get busy great, but like I said should not be expected. Most things beyond that aren't huge points for debate with me. I think I've been clear enough that I want someone I can be friends with as well as have some occasional (or regular) naughty fun with too. However all of that is just my opinion. I have seen people here how have some very strict rules about first meets including sending license plate numbers or drivers license numbers to friends. And others that have been a lot more flexible. So if you were going to meet up for a one on one with someone of the opposite sex from here what would your rules be for the encounter? What type of place do you meet, do you keep it loose and casual or get all formal and dressy? Do you plan to get naughty. or is that saved for a later date? Is there anything I forgot to mention. |
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I meet for lunch or coffee in public first. Usually I get the guy's full name and do a little research to make sure he's who he says he is. Then I'm okay inviting him to my house the next time. I live next door to a state trooper who parks his cruiser right in his driveway. Makes me feel safer  ***
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Well I tend to be overly safety cautious sometimes. Before meeting up with someone from here I need their full name, too. And then I research them like crazy. If they want to see me naked they need to be willing to at least give me their real name. I text their info to one of my friends along with meet up information. If I turned up missing at least one person would have a lead to pass along to the police. This is what I get writing murder mysteries. It leaves me paranoid in real life. 
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Ummmm .... I'm a freak  At least I admit it? I prefer to meet at group events ... there is less pressure that way. However, if it is one on one .... it will be some place public. I will need a valid phone number before hand. I forward any/all info I have on screen name, IM name, phone number .... to myself and a friend in an email. I find it best to just keep things casual. I always feel the need to inform my dates that they aren't getting laid. Funny thing about that ... I haven't been stood up since I started doing that. Guess guys get stage fright if they think they might have to put out.  The most important thing you can wear is the expression on your face!   
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1/21/2011 8:37 am |
I like bubbles idea.. I would be game for that!! Creativity is a drug I cannot live without.
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since I do not meet I have nothing to add to this, seems you have it covered pretty good with that list of yours.
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I want to meet the guys Bubbles is meeting so I can have some naked cash rolling on my 1st dates!...lol...Otherwise my rules are the same as your's. Public place, keep it casual and I need a phone # and full name to pass to my safe person. I really hate when people expect me to invite them to my house for a 1st meet, awkward and no I don't think so! Kisses, LeeAnn Kisses, LA   
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