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Vengeance
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Vengeance Has anyone ever made you so mad that you felt a profound level of anger building within you? (Cue fight music) This week could go down as the first time in the history of my career that I've actually felt a strong urge to act on my anger. Yes, it's another fucking venting blog so get over it. One of the perils to my job is occasionally crossing paths with divorced parents who have extreme animosity toward each other. (As in if they could get away with it, they'd hire a hit man) Some of them are master manipulators. For them it's about winning at all cost. Unfortunately, it's the who are the collateral damage. When working with high conflict custody situations, I am frequently called upon as an expert witness by attorneys and other court advocates to write letters to the court and make mandated reports based on things that get revealed. My recommendations have always been diligent, fair, and based upon well-established facts that support my findings. Recently, one such master manipulator crossed my path. No word was mentioned by this person being so upset by my recommendations that the person filed a complaint against my license. Instead the person sat smugly in my office and agreed to start family counseling. WITH ME. A week later, I received a formal complaint. Never in my career have I ever experienced this type of master manipulation. Or had to defend my professional recommendations. It fucking sucks. It's a huge legal pain in the ass which is exactly what this person was aiming for. Instead of acting on my urge to knock someone out, I've been taking out my vengeance ultra hard on the elliptical and the treadmill. This week's mileage grand total 65.1 miles. Fuck, I really need to get laid. Wine, where are you? HAve you ever experienced a professional setback? How do you manage and cope? |
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My first reaction is that you should see whether you have grounds for protesting a nuisance complaint. My second is that you don't want to escalate with this person. Without knowing the details, if you are able to demonstrate that everything you did was within your standard practices and industry ethics, you should be able to get it dismissed. You can't work with this person, of course... but what can you do to make sure this person doesn't mess with your colleagues? Might want to check with your ethics board on this -- and if he/she launches another complaint against someone, your professional organization should step in and protect people in your region. Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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My first reaction is that you should see whether you have grounds for protesting a nuisance complaint. My second is that you don't want to escalate with this person. Without knowing the details, if you are able to demonstrate that everything you did was within your standard practices and industry ethics, you should be able to get it dismissed. You can't work with this person, of course... but what can you do to make sure this person doesn't mess with your colleagues? Might want to check with your ethics board on this -- and if he/she launches another complaint against someone, your professional organization should step in and protect people in your region. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Hope things get better
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Yes!! Working out helps me too!!! May I say you have a sexy body!!!!
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Like humor said, look into grounds for nuisance or vindictive complaints. I'm sure there's precedent, given the field. Secondly, from a professional venting point of view, you need to up your amount of "fucks" in your vent. I believe there's a minimum requirement of nine. (hugs) sorry you've had to go through this load of crap.
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2/1/2016 8:13 am |
Sadly over the many years of single life, I have repeatedly seen decent humans become vengeful monsters in divorce situations. So hurt and unhappy that anyone and everyone who comes close to them is subjected to hurtful insults and manipulations that are obscene. Yes, it happens all too often. No regard for decency or other people, just about them and their need for unjustified punishing the world. This is why couples in a divorce generally lose all their mutual friends even at church.
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65.1 miles equates to a couple of bottles of good wine! Or, in my case, good bourbon!!! Lol!!! Damn asses who manipulate!!! I am sure you have all of your ducks in a row and the complaint will lead to nothing more than a large time waster. But make sure your reports now support more the other parents side!!! Lmao!  hugs
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I sympathize with your plight, Myelin. When your calling is to serve humans they sometimes serve you back. Mental health would be so much easier without those pesky humans. Stay strong and know your readers support you. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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