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Sex: If I Could Have a Do Over
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Sex: If I Could Have a Do Over It seemed like a good idea at the time. When it comes to sexual misadventures, why do we feel so wrong about that which, in the heat of the moment, felt so right? If you've ever experienced any regrets over your sex life, you're definitely not the only one! There are many reasons for second-guessing sex: It ruined a relationship; it wasn't very exciting; it made you feel dirty or unvirtuous. From: Archives of Sexual Behavior, 2013: 55% of men regret "not indicating my sexual attraction to someone." 48% of men regret "not being more sexually adventurous in my youth." 43% of women regret moving "too fast" or having too much sex. 41% of women regret "losing my virginity to the wrong person." Somehow, I'm not at all surprised that men have polar opposite results than women. After all, like so many other things, men and women experience sex very differently. As the researchers of this study explained, casual sex can have much higher consequences for women than for men (since they're the ones at risk for pregnancy) and so it only stands to reason that they'd have a more emotional reaction to a sexual experience they weren't ready for. How about you? Do you have any sexual regrets? My one sexual regret is losing my virginity when I was 16 in a casual encounter to a person that I met one summer visiting my grand parents. I never saw him after that summer.  |
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No regrets Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Do I have any sexual regrets?? Definitely. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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"Regrets I’ve had a few but then again too few to mention." When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I have no regrets sexually. I do have two romantic regrets, though. First I didn't tell one FWB that I loved her when I should have. Second I committed myself to a monogamous relationship when I shouldn't have. That one got me plenty of sex, but I also missed a lot of opportunities. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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I'm definitely in the 55 percentile, in my youth, now that I look back, I have regrets now of not being as active now as I was then.... ....oh the perks of being in your 20's!!! It was fun, I'll leave it at that!   Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts! 
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Truth is there are no do overs.............. Look at the virginity issue so many want to redo..... Step back and think....the boat of having with sex one partner set sail back in late 60's. it's not coming back to port anytime soon. i can only speak for myself...but i make decisions based on the facts in front of me. If I had more future information well I'd be the richest man in the world. Too much time can be wasted looking back at prior decision unless there's string of really bad ones in a row... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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NO regrets yet.
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Oh I have many do overs. lol I lost my virginity at age 25 to a woman I met off VisionPersonals.com (back in the "old days"). In fact it wasn't until around 2005 or 2006 that I had sex with someone that I did NOT meet off the internet. I would say that some of my sexual encounters were mistakes. The majority of "mistakes" were "prizes". You've seen it in the chat room. "Fresh meat" comes in....all the sharks start circling......there is usually just one winner. So basically it was just winning the prize. Of course some of those encounters turned out fabulous and I'm still in touch with them. But closer to 90% have moved on.
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No regrets here. I have been with many!! all good..some, well not so good
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1/24/2015 2:37 pm |
I don't have regrets. Would like some do-overs, certainly. But it kinda is-what-it-is. And there ain't much that can be done about it. Now, anyway. Which is all we have, ya know. Looking at your post all I can exclaim is "lies, damn lies, and statistics". -- Samuel Clemens.
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