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An Embarrassing Situation
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An Embarrassing Situation Let me preface this post by saying I don't judge anyone who posts risque photos on their blogs or profiles. In fact, I rather enjoy looking at some of them. Over the years, several readers have asked why I don't post more risque photos of myself. It goes back about about 15 years ago. During that time, I was going through a tumultuous divorce. I was opening up more sexually and exploring my submissive side. I had a profile on ALT and met a Dominant man for a D/s encounter. He enjoyed photographing of me in various stages of submission. Several photos were taken of me bound, in the nude, wearing a collar and very obviously in the throws of passion. The photos were amazing, high resolution photos and I was very happy to share them with others, seeing nothing wrong with adding them to my ALT profile. One afternoon I received a telephone call from a former work colleague, a police Lieutenant that worked for internal affairs at the police department where I had worked four years prior. He wanted to meet with me but wouldn't say why over the telephone. When I got to his office, he showed me printed nude photos that I had posted on my ALT profile. He also handed me copies of an email that had been dispersed to approximately 20 former police and sheriff colleagues along with the caption, "My City Police Officer Found Naked on the Net." He informed me that he was investigating who originated the emails because they were emailed on the city's and county's email servers. Imagine the horror of having to see these nude photos knowing former professional colleagues are now fully aware of your kinky sexual escapades. Turns out, the emails originated from a former police colleague that I had helped get fired while I was still a cop. Apparently he was under the incorrect assumption that I was still working for the department when he sent out the email in a malicious attempt to extract his revenge against me. The embarrassment of having former colleagues not only see me nude but know my kinky sexual preferences was enough to prevent me from posting further risque photos. So, now you know another one of my dirty little secrets. Have you found yourself in a similar embarrassing predicament? How did you deal with it? |
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I can only imagine your total embarrasment in this situation. The former cop should have his nuts ripped off IMHO -tm
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Never had the experience and never will. I'm not an extrovert, my body is mine and I don't share it with the web or individuals on it. This site also shares your profile and pictures with other sister sites which I think is pretty stupid but hey, they run it they can.
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He sounds like a rat bastard. The fact he got fired from a job reinforces that fact. You did nothing wrong. He did.
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What a horrible experience to endure, and no wonder you're wary of making a similar mistake. I will offer my perspective, though different as yours involved a partner Like many others i have had love/self-esteem issues with body parts, ad part of conquering that on here has been the taking of nude selfies. Not on profile, face not shown or given out as separate photos. Given my own perspective on my looks, i had to reach the mental position that if my photos were requested and I was subject to ridicule, i was strong enough to decide i couldn't be hurt by betrayal or that it couldn't be used against me Not really an issue as no danger of a server crashing due to unprecedented female demand, but I hope you get the mindset behind the rationale
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Never had the experience, but the last thing you should be is embarrassed.
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I am sure that it is always tempting to show off our best assets to folks we trust but especially in this day and age nothing stays private. Even when you show off in person and in private you never know if there is a hidden spy camera somewhere. But on the other hand it still shows how sick our society really is when good adult fun can be embarrassing. And it can only get worse when we have these low lifes that exploit the situation like the mongrel you encountered. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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Admit nothing, deny nothing can be a prudent tactic. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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While at a HUGE company meeting this week, I realized I’d misplaced a USB stick containing not only my HNW offering for this week, but also several other photos of me, some quite graphic and including other persons. Eventually I found it tumbled up in the sheets in my room, but it certainly was a stressful time until I did so. And speaking of this week’s HNW, I know you’re not a participant, but I’m quite proud of my offering this week (as well as the fact that the whole week’s theme was dedicated, well, TO ME – the theme was “Cleavage”), so I invite you to stop by and offer your comment on my creativity. I Won a New Car A Very Special Contribution from Cleavage on HNW A Change in the Weather and My Location The Beginning of the End My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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