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Are You a STUD or COUGAR ?  

lilredriddinhood 60F
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9/28/2007 11:21 pm

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11/19/2007 6:11 pm
Are You a STUD or COUGAR ?
When I'm Surfin' the Chat Rooms, one of the most asked questions is if I date Younger MEN?
I have dated Older Men, when I was Young, before I was married.
An Younger Men, when I was Older, after I divorced.
I wonder does that matter and why is that the first question,
A MAN WOULD ASK A WOMAN?
Is that the first question an Older Man asks a Younger Woman?
Or, is it more like do you have a boyfriend?
Do you live at home with your MOM and DAD?
Are you married? ETC.
Why is it Okay for a Older Men to date a Younger Woman,
and be considered a STUD.
But, if a Older WOMAN dates a Young Guy, she is a COUGAR.
Of course there are those that call anyone who dates
younger partner's CRADLE ROBBERS.
Since, my divorce I have dated a Man 8yrs Older than me, and the Youngest Man I've dated was 18 yrs Younger than me.
My average age of dating has been is 30-40.
I really haven't settled on a right age.
I guess I like choice best without judgment.
It really depends on the person and
their interests in life.
They must have respect for me and my Independence.
Most of the time, that is the DEAL BREAKER, with me.
Trying to Change me, Posses me and Control me.
I want the MAN I'm spending time with
to like me the way I am.
At first the guys always tell me, that they
like me just the way I am.
But, they end up wanting me to STOP
doing the things I like.
They turn into a control freak and don't want
me talking to my friends anymore,
or going anywhere.
That sends me running the other way.
When I am seeing someone I give them
all my trust and expect the same.
So, if I want to go somewhere with my friends.
Or he wants to go somewhere with his friends.
We have NO problem.
As long as we are still making
time for each other and
respect each other.

My Question to you is why? are MEN considered STUD'S and WOMEN are looked down upon as COUGAR'S when dating a YOUNG PARTNER'S?
Remember:
Give the respect you expect to get!
Lil Red Riddin Hood
rm_548me 75M
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9/29/2007 5:42 pm

 Age shouldn't be an issue. It's about connection. As to controllers... ain't no way to show the love, by golly.


swizlestick2 64M

9/29/2007 4:56 pm

 I also think that age is a personal choice and as long as your happy that is all that should count, I was married to a lady that was 11 years older than me and probably the only reason we are not still together is because she passed away, this is why I say that as long as your happy then to hell with what others think. As far as men being controlling I honestly could not say for sure because I have never been that way because I was brought up knowing that a relationship has no room for jealousy in because if either one of you are jealous then the relationship will never work.
____swizlestick2______


akfun2008 59M

9/29/2007 5:49 am

 I think it's personal choice who you date and what age and if the people can't respect your desicion it's there own problem.Your problem with guys becoming control freaks is just from them having low self estem and low confidense.


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