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Condoms  

LustfulLady64 60F  
1228 posts
8/11/2017 7:28 am
Condoms

In this day in age I am still surprised at how many men have issues with condoms.

With so many STDs out there I'm surprised at how many men still won't use a condom. I know it feels different than skin on skin bareback Etc but how many of you can honestly say that you were truly clean? I know the test for STDs is not the most comfortable one for guys LOL Having a swab stuck in the head of your penis does not sound like fun to me! But too many men assume they're clean and don't know that they have anything until they pass it on to another woman. I have a friend who got not one but two STDs from a guy who thought he was clean. After she told him that she thought she gave them to him. His attitude was it's all good didn't bother to get tested. She later learnef she got them from hom, necausecof the timeframe. She hadn't had sex in over 6 months. That just blows my mind! So he could be going around giving other girls STDs and to me that's just being uncaring and ignorant!
I WILL NOT BE WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS ISSUE WITH CONDOMS! Some guys get defensive and say I'm clean, but that does not sit well with me. Unless you can go to your personal health care provider and prove to me that you haven't had sex between the time that you had your swab and blood test done and got your results back. Then you don't honestly know if you're clean. Often unfortunately people will get an STD and not notify their partners. Either out of embarrassment or the fact that they've had so many or don't know who all their partners are. This is not an anyway being judgemental, I have been to a few parties and have slept with men and women and I don't know their numbers or addresses or any other personal information only their names. But condoms were used and I was tested after the fact. I too would have been in trouble if I came up positive for something because I wouldn't know what women to contact or how to contact them.

So can anyone tell me what their thoughts are on the use of condoms and what they do if someone will not use one? I for one will walk away from a sex partner if they a have issue using a condom or flat-out refuse to use one.

TrainPullerCock 36M
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1/15/2019 4:51 pm

 I agree wholeheartedly - condoms are a must. It's amazing how many take it for granted, but it's not only one, it's for the health of both those involved and others they have sex with down the road. Thank you for taking the time to write this and shed light on it. Hugs!!


HungCOstud9 45M
42 posts
12/16/2019 3:04 pm

 good thoughts


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