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Geographically challenged  

LustfulLady64 60F  
1228 posts
1/16/2017 2:28 pm
Geographically challenged

How many others have run into this problem? You live in an area but everyone that you sent to connect with or from another totally different area basically a 35 minutes to an hour or more apart.

When I lived in Boulder Colorado everyone always said to me oh there must be a lot of nice college guys there looking to have fun. Well the problem is yes there is a lot of college guys most likely looking to have fun but they also didn't understand certain situations. Since I've moved to Kansas I've heard the comment all there must be a lot of horny Army Guys near you because I live so close to an Army Post. The fact of the matter is, that although there are a lot of army guys here they are all so lonely so they find young women to marry. Or live in the barracks and either can't afford to or are too cheap to get a room to hook up.

I for one, do not host at my place for a number of reasons. Also the guys that I seem to encounter here don't understand that meeting in public means meeting at a coffee shop or something of the like. Not meeting in the parking lot of Walmart LOL. I understand people have Financial constraints etc but one of my deal breakers is if you can't host you get a room if not then we're not going to meet.

So back to the geographical difficulties I know I've spoken to other people who have had the same issues how many of you that read my blogs had that concern like I said when I lived in Colorado I lived in Boulder and Longmont but always seem to meet people that lives in Denver or Colorado Springs if you know anything about the geography of Colorado then you know that Denver is 45 minutes to an hour from Boulder Colorado Springs is even farther. Now that I'm here in Kansas it's the same thing people I talk to seem to be much farther away, as far as Nebraska which apparently isn't as far as I thought LOL

My question is what do you do? Do you bite the bullet and come out to meet someone that far of a distance knowing that you may not hook up or do you move on have you drove a distance to meet someone and it worked out have you driven to meet someone and it's been a total train wreck?

So come on guys let me know what year what your experiences have been and what is it why are we also geographically challenged?

LustfulLady64 60F  
617 posts
1/28/2017 6:44 am

 I agree! I also feel if you're truly interested you will do just what you did.


LustfulLady64 60F  
617 posts
1/28/2017 6:45 am

 Is it a pain because of distance? Or they don't want to take some time to work the ligistics?


pscott6988 54M

3/14/2021 3:40 pm

 I hear you. Until I got my little apartment in Manhattan, I was in the barracks. Couldn't take a girl back there, even when I didn't have a roommate. A room in Junction City was not that expensive. Used to be a couple of coffee shops in town, before Starbucks started popping up. Great places to meet, then we could go our separate ways if there was no connection.


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