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Blogs > LustfulLady64 > Where do I begin...

So many thoughts  

LustfulLady64 60F  
1228 posts
11/6/2016 8:38 am
So many thoughts

Post yet it's been awhile since I've been on here and I have so many thoughts going through my head.

I guess I'll start with being what they consider a BBW big beautiful woman. I don't really like that title but I guess it is what it is. I often wonder if men think women who are large or big are desperate for love and sex... for me and the few that I know it's quite the contrary being big for me is a fact of life it's not something I'm proud of or I'd like but it's just something I deal with. I am actually quite confident in myself and know what I want and will not settle for less. I have my standards and choose to stand by them, but sometimes some of the emails I get from guys makes me wonder.

One guy I asked him for a face pic and once he sent it and I told him I wasn't interested, he told me it wasn't his real pic. Who does something like that? I still talk to him but I am not investing much effort in meeting him.

Don't consider myself shallow but I do know that I need to have a physical connection prior to meeting. I know guys are the same way they are very visual so I don't really put much thought into it or emotion when I asked. I don't ask or say I'm not interested to hurt people's feelings I just expect the same from them. Why waste anyone's time if there is no attraction or interest.

I guess the next song on my mind is the new changes that the site has made. They have made it very difficult for standard members to engage other members. Does anyone else question the new guidelines for standard members? I have researched other sites and found one that is somewhat comparable to this site but don't feel comfortable using it I've been on this site for quite a while and as long as I am still a gold member will stay here.

Back to the guy with the fake pic. I'm sure many men get girls who send fake pics and then when they meet they realize they were duped. I have had a couple occasions where are the pictures did not quite match the person I thought I was meeting. Mainly they seem to have old pictures they sent your post. I tried to update my pics at least once a year LOL how about everyone else do you update your pics? Has anyone used fake pics? What was the reason for using a fake pic comma did it turn out good or bad for you? I myself would be too afraid to use a fake pic and then actually meet someone in person knowing that I was not that person they saw. If you met someone who used to fake pic what did you say to them? What was your reaction? Did you still go through with hooking up?

Well I'm sure I'm at my limit for this blog so once I get my thoughts together I will start another one

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