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auto reply for instant message  

LustfulLady64 60F  
1228 posts
8/13/2015 9:18 am
auto reply for instant message

Would anyone else like to see an auto reply for instant messenger? I don't know how many times i responded to a chat only to find the writer was interested in something I was not.

I know instant messenger is one of the few ways standard members can contact others and try to be understanding. But it gets annoying.

To me this is a big waste of my time, and trust me, being a woman I get a lot of messages and feel these guys time is being wasted as well. I have gotten to the point where my first response is, "hello, I'm not into the following..." It sounds a bit harsh but I'm just done with wasting time to the point that I ignore messages. I know its difficult for guys in general to get a woman to respond and don't really like ignoring people. But what choice do I have?

Does anyone think there needs to be some type of intro or info they can read prior to contact? Or am I alone?

feelinflips 60M/51F
86 posts
8/13/2015 9:29 am

 they won't read it anyway...


LustfulLady64 60F  
617 posts
8/14/2015 11:21 am

 If they ignore it. Then it's totally on them, and their time, not mine.


lessant 55F
36 posts
8/15/2015 6:43 pm

 it so needs to be to adjusted it is hard for standard members they cant see anything on your profile to off so they repeat the same shit to 10 ladies has to be a fix to the instant message


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