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Blogs > rm_pugx > My Head Space

Hmmm  

rm_pugx 52F
383 posts
8/10/2014 4:52 am

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1/29/2015 7:14 pm
Hmmm

Feeling lonely doesn't normally get to me but tonight it has.
Obviously I ma doing something wrong.
To independent, to opinionated, to strong, to something...
I don't know ... kinda given up... I look at my single friends who are not capable, who always need my help, who call on my first to change a light globe, to fix problems and to assist when in need ... yet they are always out on dates, people ask them out... they are good looking maybe a size 6-8 at most... and then I look in the mirror and see me...

The truth is I don't NEED anyone to fix things, but I would truly like somebody to share my life with...

So what should I change n my life, how do I attract the right person?

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Pug
rm_pugx 52F
189 posts
10/7/2014 8:01 pm

 Aww thanks guys for the honest and words of support and encouragement... its nice to know there are some true gentleman out there.

@the-checklist thanks for the kind words. The mind is a very powerful tool that enables us to go beyond the physical enjoyment of sex.

@BBooma I know exactly what you mean. And I have worked very hard on learning to love myself and know what it is I want and what qualities I have to share. However, I fear at times this is confronting for some and they are looking for someone they can control or rescue from their lives. But I do live in hope and I know as I get older most people change.

@Buttplug - how are you yes we have chatted many times and it brings a smile to my face to read your lovely words. Thank you my friend.

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Pug


Butts2Plug 58M
165 posts
9/10/2014 6:47 am

 HI Pug,
been a long time since we chatted, still I feel fond of you, seeking and yearning for touch and comfort and moment of before, they are things to hold you back, I'm in the same place as you in my life alone in love alone in my bed alone in my mind I have many people and friends that I draw love from it get me by and I see the value of sharing and caring for another.

In my world is a simple rule "Give and Get, Live and Let"

just let yourself live.
Live it like you want it
write it like you lived it
ride the waves of passion


the_checklist 69M
Ask me for a photo
3 posts
8/27/2014 2:51 am

 "I would truly like somebody to share my life with"

That thought is so dam alluring it's not funny.

I think one shortcoming of sites like this might well be the emphasis on the physical aspects of sex rather than having the mind, drive the desire to be part of a persons life for the right reasons.

That's not to say the sexual side is not of importance because it most certainly is but a full body orgasm is way better than a localised version.

We all should know by now.if our brain is engaged before during and after an interlude you will have an enjoyable time regardless of how many traditional orgasms both parties have

"so what should I change in my life"

nothing perhaps just have patience and enjoy the journey and forget about the destination.

"how do I attract the right person"

you attracted me so might attract others just being you and not attempting to be someone you are not.


rm_pugx 52F
189 posts
8/23/2014 12:15 am

 Thanks for your honesty and replies...

@broomeboy2012 thanks for the offer, but I fear that as I don't know you and my safety always comes first then I can't be heading off to some hotel with someone I haven't met. Although I agree there is potential to put a smile on my face

@jerr51 Maybe Im like good wine, get better with age

@TallSexy81 I know what you mean I am more than willing for someone to assist me and be part of life, to share the experience. I appreciate your thoughts.

@needmoresex1972 thanks for your thoughts - I don't think anyone is an expert... I think I may need more of your username.. hehehehe

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Pug


broomeboy2012 40M
Ask me for a photo
1 post
8/15/2014 4:49 pm

 id give you some company im in vic on the 3 sep and would like some company at my hotel for the night! it would put a smile on your face for sure


jerr51 63M
2050 posts
8/10/2014 6:55 am

 Change nothing about yourself and don't settle for less than you want


TallSexy81 41M
96 posts
8/10/2014 5:25 am

 Indeed, you're in the midst of a headgame with yourself. Plus while you may not NEED someone to do some of those things, you do need to be willing to let someone else also do those things for you, if they so choose.

Keep right on plugging along hun, this is a duration game, you'll find the one you are after. One you can mesh completely with and know that everything will still get done, while giving the extra satisfaction you crave.


needmoresex1972 51M
77 posts
8/10/2014 5:20 am

 I'm no expert but just be yourself change nothing maybe


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